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@ Leo - I bet! I can imagine it being hard. I just wonder what do these depressing men have to offer that women wanna stay with them and people remain friends with them Lol. I'm thinking of cutting this friend loose. Don't get me wrong, I understand that nobody is perfect, but a manic depressant is a really huge flaw which sucks a lotttt out of a relationship.
I'm confused about;
You said you want him to leave you alone but then you say he never takes you on a date.
You said you want him to leave you alone but then you say you are turning down dates for him.
You said you want him to leave you alone but then you say you told him your womb is going to dry up and you called him a scared chicken.
I'm not confused about;
You gave it up too soon so he lost interest but it was probably good so he wants some more. It happens. I think you are clingly because you want more than he is willingly to give. It has nothing to do with the Zodiac or you being a Capricorn. It's called catching feelings. That's what happened. He is playing with you and you are letting him as a Capricorn this is not your game it is an Aries game so you cannot win. Heck you don't even know how to play it.
Find a Virgo and live happily ever after.
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Thanks for your response and I'm sorry to confuse you. What I am basically saying is that I am interested enough to entertain something if he is interested but if he is not then he needs to go completely away and I will be ok with that too. I am not sprung on him, I just see so much potential that I am willing and I like him enough at this point to try something real. But we don't have to. So he either needs to stay or go away but the lines need to be clear.
I don't date because I'm still not clear about the Aries and I only date one at a time...serious or not serious. It's all I can handle on my plate.
I asked him what I asked him about my womb because he has no children an we discussed children early on. I have not been intimate with this man in months but during those months all he has been doing is flirting with no date plans that he blames on me an my work schedule. I said it to be mean...like I have been doing for the past few months...being mean so he will go away. I called him a coward because I was being mean and letting him know at the same time that I recognize his commitment phobia. I haven't heard a response so I know he is upset...which is what I was going for so he would bounce.
About me giving it up too early...I don't have those kinds of hangups on time and I don't know what the proper limits are anyway. I have been celibate for more that 8 years and not dating at all. he was my first interest and I for one wasn't going over in my mind how long I should make him wait.
and repeatedly reminds me of it and I don't know why. If he is so bored then he should stop contacting me is my reasoning, so I think it's more than that. I was hoping some Aries men could help me.
My brother is a Virgo and much too beta for my taste and I am just not that clean....so no thank you on the Virgos. I am attracted to the fires...usually leos though.
I am a Capricorn Woman and my man is a Taurus. What a beautiful match, really. We were childhood friends and reintroduced by our parents. we both were just getting out of a relationship and not expecting anything to really happen but We hit it off great. Dated for about two months when he found out that I had worked as a masseuse giving body rubs. This is a whole new conversation it's itself, but I was brought into that career by my ex boyfriend and was really stuck there. I was trying to figure a way out so Mr. Taurus wouldn't find out but that wasn't the case, as they are very observable people. He added up everything and found out. It was a mess. He called my ex and said he wasnt letting me go back to that work and an very threating argument broke out there. Mr. Taurus let out his inner bull. He said he was hurt and that I cheated on him. It was a big scene and I know I had done wrong. Mr. Taurus informed me that he still loves me, thought the world of me and hoped our relationship would work out. He said all this about 1 week 1/2 ago. I texted him this recent Thursday and said I was thinking of him. He responded with, "same here, I'll call you when I'm off work." He never called. I texted him a few days later stating that I assumed we were over. I also included my apologies and that I thought he was a fabulous person all around. He also did not respond to this text and I have not heard from him since. Is it over with him? Is he done? I need help. I know I deeply screwed up but he was just the right person at the wrong time. I love him and Its hard letting him go since we have been childhood friends for so long. Please help and refer all judgement. Is he done with me? Is there anything more I can do? Thanks!
Wow does she know me personally! N here I thought my sarcasm n clumsiness were only blessed upon me
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Most Capricorns I've met are the furthest thing from clingy. However, OP, you gave it up to him and his ego too soon here (or at least by his interpretation that you did):
Somehow I get the feeling that he is manipulating this case here for his ego.Anyway, OP, I think you should pull back much more (he technically asked for it). I think if he wants a date with you, he definitely would have arranged date, time and everything!
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Thanks for your response. I have several Cappy friends and my best friend is one also We make fun of clingy people And it's an insult to is to be called one. I can be clingy and when I am I am in a very insecure situation where my heart is deeply involved and I feel like I have much to lose. This is far from that.
He could be manipulating me for his ego like you said because he keeps mentioning my looks and my height to his friends and saying his friends want to meet me now that I think about it, in fact every time I've seen him (4 times) he called his friends up on the phone to come by and meet me and I am too shy for that.
We aren't intimate And I told him we were no longer going to be because I wanted to get to know him.
I never initiate contact but now I'm going to block his number which I hate to do because it's too rude. But he's too persistent and it confuses me.
If she put u in the friend zone ur destined to stay there until she decides to change it, she likes the Attention u give her n she knows u want her which will only make her not see u as some1 who she wants! I've kept guys in the friend zone for years, n years n only certain things have ever made me see thm different, 1. Thy took it, n were persistent , n thn all of a sudden couldn't b around whn I wanted thm around! Now don't get me wrong I didn't realize at the time that I was even causing thm any discomfort, n us sag girls prefer male friends to female friends, not sure y! So we realize n don't realize at the same time, that u might b attracted to us, but believe its superficial n if we have r eyes or hearts on some1 else we can't see u there yet! So my advice is to be upfront about what u want n let her no that u want to hang out with her on a different level thn just plain friends but don't mention a relationship or any feelings for her, but that u just want to have fun with her, n c if any things there between u two! But if she says no, just take it as a NO! N find urself a new girl to chase! Best I can do without giving all r secrets away!