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Aug 03, 2006Comments: 73 · Posts: 3385 · Topics: 36
I was never drawn for the future either lol.... and and as far as knowing the future.... meh highly unimportant to me.... because really with life's infinite paths, choice is still in the way.
I guess it intrigues me as to how or why such a thing might work. the elevation of what that means in the grand scheme. it all ties together in my head with all things mentioned in various posts of this thread.
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Aug 03, 2006Comments: 73 · Posts: 3385 · Topics: 36
hahah I just thought of how hard I work to romanticize a higher meaning to life.
Actually. F that. it isn't hard work at all. but I will still admit that I do it.
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May 04, 2012Comments: 4373 · Posts: 50653 · Topics: 564
Pisces and Scorpio best for me.(dominant fire)
worst was aqua with aries stellium/capricorn moon. (i dont blame him, because he couldnt fight his demons/his past/upbringing)
but r.i.p. /hope he has found peace.
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Flirted for a few months (nothing major, just dropping in he was single, n calling me gorgeous really).
He indirectly asked me for my number about 4 months ago n said he had always liked me. Started seeing each other n he seemed smitten. He told me every girl in his past had hurt him quite early on.
After a while he said he wasn't ready emotionally or in the head for anything. He didnt know what he wanted, he liked me, but he was scared of getting hurt n his heart wasnt letting him get totally involved. Said he didn't want just sex, and could only offer me friendship right now!
Since he doesn't call or text at alll. I see him Occasionally when I bump into him, he seems to flirt - be interested in me, look at me, laugh, seems to try n keep me talking etc, but not as much flirting as he used to. He sometimes says stuff to make me think he wants me around n to keep me interested, and did seem to get quite jealous a few weeks ago when I asked him a guys name,.
I'm not contacting him at all, but he knows I want a relationship with him.
I told him I was willing to wait around for a bit if he saw a future with me via text a few times a while ago, and also to not make me wait if he didnt want me or wanted to keep him options open, but he never told me not to wait or that he didnt want me, he just ignored my messages!
Clearly he's distancing himself from me, but he just being nice when I see him or flirting? Surely he would just tell me not to wait n move on and not give me the time of day when I see him if he didnt like me!
He confuses me - he doesnt know I'm not waiting anymore, but really like him and do want to be with him.
Just unsure if he's trying to stay platonic n give himself time to be ready n maybe want something in the future or whether he is kindly meaning leave me alone, I'm not interested n want nothing with u in the future, don't wait for me I would rather find someone else!