Well...I broke up with him
Posted by Agentgem24
Be nice to the fishy ~.~
He knows I love him.
NotNights22 I've got LOVE for you.... I hope you feel the same.
Sorry my scorpio moon is showing.
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Thanks for all the feedback guys, I really appreciate it!
Having been through a break personally, it was just a long drawn out break up.
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by incandescentcancerPosted by CluelessCancerPosted by incandescentcancer
I like to stuff 'em like a motherfuckin' turkey.
so romantic.
You'll get all the roh-mance you need in about 10 mts...lol
lol enough time for me.
10-20 mts is good enough for most people....anything more should count as an epic effort which should be rewarded by two BJs later.click to expand
It better be a mind blowing 10-20 mins ruh-nance otherwise I will be pissy. If it is, that is good enough for me. I don't want to have the ability to think or move afterwards.
Well see the thing is with her, she is actually one of his top best friends and they have always been completely platonic and he said nothing would ever have him see it other ways. He doesn't like her that way. He even helped her get with her bf and told her to stay with him and that he's a keeper. It makes her sad he said when I'm so accusatory towards him when there is no attraction there (like my male room mate) and he only cares for her like a friend. The whole going to get a drink was his idea because he wanted to see her once before he left since he's with his dad for the game, and then me. He's known her way longer than me. I even live with my platonic guy friend and he really likes him.
He was jealous at first with my trainer friend, thought he had a hidden motive for training me for free until I told him he too offered to train him for free a few weeks if he was intersted.
I know it wasnt hidden motives or trying to get me jealous with this girl. I have so many rules and I did say it was ok if he OCCASIONALLY went for lunch or a drink with her, but I don't like the 1am thing.
He told me that she's one of his best friends, she's one of the guys and she's fun to hang out with and get a girls perspective but he is not attracted to her. He says she's good as a friend, but as far as her personality goes and all her issues, she would never work as a romantic partner and he's not intersted in her like that or attracted to her. He looks out for her kinda like a brother, a coach.
My best Taurus male friend/room mate is like my life coach. He helped me get with my bf. he says I'm very attractive but he could never be with him because I'm not his type and would drive him CRAZY...but he does help me out a lot, he looks out for me. That's why when this girl told my bf she may break up with her bf, he talked her out of it because he didn't want her to go back to destructive/slutty mode and thought he was a good guy for her.
He was jealous at first with my trainer friend, thought he had a hidden motive for training me for free until I told him he too offered to train him for free a few weeks if he was intersted.
I know it wasnt hidden motives or trying to get me jealous with this girl. I have so many rules and I did say it was ok if he OCCASIONALLY went for lunch or a drink with her, but I don't like the 1am thing.
He told me that she's one of his best friends, she's one of the guys and she's fun to hang out with and get a girls perspective but he is not attracted to her. He says she's good as a friend, but as far as her personality goes and all her issues, she would never work as a romantic partner and he's not intersted in her like that or attracted to her. He looks out for her kinda like a brother, a coach.
My best Taurus male friend/room mate is like my life coach. He helped me get with my bf. he says I'm very attractive but he could never be with him because I'm not his type and would drive him CRAZY...but he does help me out a lot, he looks out for me. That's why when this girl told my bf she may break up with her bf, he talked her out of it because he didn't want her to go back to destructive/slutty mode and thought he was a good guy for her.
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Posted by chrissydancePosted by TaurusVenus22
Need help from the libra males to understand this behavior. Been seeing a libra male for 4 months, he didnt want to rush into anything so we're taking it slow:
He's Distant, suddenly pass codes phone & leaves it face down sometimes, we still go on dates but it's always sex at the end. Really close when I'm near & affectionate, still messages when I'm away but sometimes takes hours to respond and it's small talk, nothing deep anymore no questions gettin to know one another, he use to reply in an instant. I have met his family, was at his family house on the weekend. Use to call me everyday, I asked why he didnt anymore & then he called me the next afternoon, then yesterday liked this other girls pic on Facebook & befriended her, then I didn't hear from him for hours til I initiated contact. He still texts me good morning everyday and did today. He normally initiates but use to always ask what I'm doing if I hadn't text for a while. I havent met any of his friends? I just dunno am I reading too much into it? What do I do to know?
He's Libra sun, sag moon/mars, venus scorpio, sag rising
You're not the only one on his agenda.click to expand
Lol, this happened with the last one I dated. He was very much keeping his options open and suddenly wanted to focus on being "single." I stopped bothering with that shit. Definitely can throw you for a loop though. Everything points to the obvious relationship track because it is THAT obvious, and then wham, they change and it's like "lol I never was THAT serious!!"
Guys who flip the script like that aren't relationship material anyway. They want to be single and fuck around as they please. What do you do? Let them go play around and you go do your thing and find someone else who isn't preoccupied with fucking around with females. Ain't worth your time.
The term "passive aggressive" is seriously overused on this site.
If I ignore you, that's not passive aggressive. That's me not wanting to talk to you--logic. If I don't tell you what I'm thinking or feeling, that's not passive aggressive. That's me not wanting to treetrunking talk about it because if I did, I would--logic. If I point out that your shoes don't match the outfit you're wearing or that hem of your skirt has come undone, that's not being passive aggressive. That's me telling you that your ensemble sucks, and it is to make you better because I'm probably embarrassed to be seen with you in public and I want you to go fix that butter--logic.
True, a Virgo's worst enemy is often themselves. But I don't recall ever seeing someone complain about being hated because they were "questioned" so much as feeling discontent from others because they didn't conform to that person's ideas about what constitutes appropriate behavior. There's nothing enigmatic about it. Just a bunch of people that don't know how to listen.
If I ignore you, that's not passive aggressive. That's me not wanting to talk to you--logic. If I don't tell you what I'm thinking or feeling, that's not passive aggressive. That's me not wanting to treetrunking talk about it because if I did, I would--logic. If I point out that your shoes don't match the outfit you're wearing or that hem of your skirt has come undone, that's not being passive aggressive. That's me telling you that your ensemble sucks, and it is to make you better because I'm probably embarrassed to be seen with you in public and I want you to go fix that butter--logic.
True, a Virgo's worst enemy is often themselves. But I don't recall ever seeing someone complain about being hated because they were "questioned" so much as feeling discontent from others because they didn't conform to that person's ideas about what constitutes appropriate behavior. There's nothing enigmatic about it. Just a bunch of people that don't know how to listen.
Correction; he says it makes her dad when I am accusatory towards her. She does want to meet me and we've been trying but our schedules are conflicting lately. He says she has nothing but nice things to say about me.
They used to hang out all the time before me and her bf was ok with it but since I came along and haven't been ok with it, he respects me and hasn't.
We def agreed on no friends with the opposite sex that are new while in the relationship, only the 2 that that we had prior to eachother.
Mine are my Taurus room mate, other than a room mate and car pooling to save money, we don't really "hang out". My Gemini male friend, he's been with my good Pisces friend for 8 years...they are getting married next month! 90% of the time the 3 of us hang out together. Only difference is if I go over there on occasion since she has opposite schedules as us, and he (like the trainer) offers me a service as in fixing my clothes, hemming etc. I bring us food and he fixes my clothes and we chill for a little bit. I'm just as good a friend with his fianc? as him so she's not put off by it at all.
Maybe I will be ok once I meet this chick, I don't feel she is a threat. Unlike the little girls he told me at his work that like him. But I still have to meet her and don't feel comfortable with them meeting up that late even if I do like her. Lunch at school, them grabbing a drink while I'm at work, that's fine so long as it's not a regular thing...but I have my limits and even innocent, drinks at 1am doesn't cut it
They used to hang out all the time before me and her bf was ok with it but since I came along and haven't been ok with it, he respects me and hasn't.
We def agreed on no friends with the opposite sex that are new while in the relationship, only the 2 that that we had prior to eachother.
Mine are my Taurus room mate, other than a room mate and car pooling to save money, we don't really "hang out". My Gemini male friend, he's been with my good Pisces friend for 8 years...they are getting married next month! 90% of the time the 3 of us hang out together. Only difference is if I go over there on occasion since she has opposite schedules as us, and he (like the trainer) offers me a service as in fixing my clothes, hemming etc. I bring us food and he fixes my clothes and we chill for a little bit. I'm just as good a friend with his fianc? as him so she's not put off by it at all.
Maybe I will be ok once I meet this chick, I don't feel she is a threat. Unlike the little girls he told me at his work that like him. But I still have to meet her and don't feel comfortable with them meeting up that late even if I do like her. Lunch at school, them grabbing a drink while I'm at work, that's fine so long as it's not a regular thing...but I have my limits and even innocent, drinks at 1am doesn't cut it
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I still call rubbish on this whole "emotional cheating" bit. Why isn't responsibility ever placed on the person who feels so damn insecure all the time?