Song of the State of your Heart (Mind, Body, Soul)
Posted by LilliLou
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Good song.
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Posted by David13
Dear TheCharmer8...
Doing the math... I guess you are approaching 8 weeks now. I think it time to change your game... what you are doing is not working.
You lived together because of HER family problems... I will come back to that.
Let me show you some things that you might be doing wrong... I say 'might' because it is merely my speculation from what I have read.
Your breaking point to send her an sms is 5 days... THIS is not long enough... she broke with you... which says that she needs time alone... this mostly means WITHOUT YOU. She comes over... you talk together... you want her to miss you... but how can she miss you when you are always there ?
I am not sure of the circumstances of her coming over at all... perhaps you make her feel guilty in some way... perhaps it is that she feels pity for you... Taurus can be made to feel weak when it comes to another's suffering. But THIS is not what you WANT ! You want her to WANT to come to you !
YOU have been HER addiction too... but allowing her to see you so readily gives her 'the fix' that she needs. Taurus cannot quit 'cold-turkey' they find it best to ween themselves... nice and slow... which is giving HER the time SHE needs to get over you. Consequently... that leaves you in the same place you have been for almost two months.
I am sure that you will see her again... but decide now that THAT will be the last time... that you will NOT follow up with an sms saying 'thanks for coming over'... 'I have missed you'... et cetera et cetera. The NEXT time... DO NOT CRACK ! This will start the cogs rolling in her head... wondering what YOU are doing and WHY you haven't contacted her. She can wait a long time... but NO ONE can wait forever.
As for her problems with her family... those problems will return. Have you ever seen anyone trying to stop smoking by chance ? The longer they go... the more irritable they become... let here keep that irritability on her family front... without YOU being her escape.
I am sorry for all of this... it is NEVER easy. You have probably heard this before, but you need to do YOU now. YOU is all that you can do. Right now, you are trying to prove that you 'have changed'... but whenever a man changes for a woman... the changes are almost never what the woman actually wanted. IF you change... you must only change for YOU ! The man you were when you met her... THAT is th
i kinda just want to stop texting her cold turkey and see what she thinks if i do that... maybe she'll wonder about me or maybe not... maybe that other guy will occupy her or maybe not... i want to leave her alone and see if she misses me but at the same time... i feel if i do that, it;ll just give her time and she'll cling on to the next guy and not worry about me anymore.. idk what to do
Posted by CluelessCancer
He's a racist. What else is there to say?
Can you tell me what makes him racist?
Can I still point out that you were snooping when you went through his history? Then looked up the websites? Went through the trouble of looking at his twitter? And finding out he is actually spending his money on porn? (P.s. Are you sure he is spending money on it? Most porn is free.)
You found something you didn't like. Confront him with it and talk about it.
Before you found out, did you ever feel like he might cheat on you? Would you trust him if you didn't know?
Trying to explain why you like a certain kind of porn is hard enough but it usually leads to some funny stories.
You found something you didn't like. Confront him with it and talk about it.
Before you found out, did you ever feel like he might cheat on you? Would you trust him if you didn't know?
Trying to explain why you like a certain kind of porn is hard enough but it usually leads to some funny stories.
Posted by His4lyfe10
Sag89- lmao no I knew he was a jerk! he was my first and probably last scorp! I never knew I'd feel like I'm stuck like glue and can't detach my damn emotions as easily as I would others!
@neuro and FUM- I thought they say a scorpio couldn't be out scorped?!?!
Lol don't believe that. It's all just an illusion. All about the appearance of it all. As long as they have you fooled they are the winners, even if you did "win".
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My dad told me to demand he tell me we were through face to face. I did and that did not go over well, he texted me back two days later on Saturday night saying he owed me nothing and really mean stuff he's never said before telling me to stop playing games when I've never tried to be anything but completely honest and self-sacrificing for him and to stop coming to his house or work and stop texting or calling him. My general practice has been to always give him ample space and so I replied that I've never shown up unexpectedly to his house or work except the once to drop the letter off (confused, hurt), but I'd not contact him again.
Texting a friend I hadn't talked to in a couple of months bc of all this I copied and pasted the messages he sent so she could see and thought I was texting her with my question and confusion about the situation, but turned out was actually him. I didn't realize it til he called me (@1 am, but she and I had been talking since 11:30pm). He asked me why I was texting him, I denied it then I double checked and saw I had and I apologized for the accident and asked if there was anything else. He paused, then asked, why I was talkking to people. I said I had a right to talk to my friends about my heartbreak so I could heal. Why did he care he'd already moved on. Then he asked what I was telling my friend about us having sex (the wknd btwn his meeting her and "the incident"/my bro's baby shower). he asked if I meant the wknd at the lakehouse (what? no I miscarried that wknd, how could you think, what? I was so confused and tried to remind him giving detail about where we went and he became so angry he started shouting about us not having had sex and that I'd made it all up. He'd never outright yelled at me before and now he was calling me a liar.
The phone hung up and a minute later he called back but a girl said my name and then hung up and another minute later (by now im on the phone with my other friend who'd been helping me talk through it and keep my distance) he calls again to tell me I need to stop calling and texting him. He accused me of sending him ten texts (yelling it over and over several times) when it was only two (I'd told him to check his timestamp phone log) and then he said more gently did I know he was trying everything in his power to stop her from driving to my house to kick my ass (tiny girl who lives a good 1.5 hr away from me at 1am, really?).
I laughed and said it didn't make any sense.She had him
Texting a friend I hadn't talked to in a couple of months bc of all this I copied and pasted the messages he sent so she could see and thought I was texting her with my question and confusion about the situation, but turned out was actually him. I didn't realize it til he called me (@1 am, but she and I had been talking since 11:30pm). He asked me why I was texting him, I denied it then I double checked and saw I had and I apologized for the accident and asked if there was anything else. He paused, then asked, why I was talkking to people. I said I had a right to talk to my friends about my heartbreak so I could heal. Why did he care he'd already moved on. Then he asked what I was telling my friend about us having sex (the wknd btwn his meeting her and "the incident"/my bro's baby shower). he asked if I meant the wknd at the lakehouse (what? no I miscarried that wknd, how could you think, what? I was so confused and tried to remind him giving detail about where we went and he became so angry he started shouting about us not having had sex and that I'd made it all up. He'd never outright yelled at me before and now he was calling me a liar.
The phone hung up and a minute later he called back but a girl said my name and then hung up and another minute later (by now im on the phone with my other friend who'd been helping me talk through it and keep my distance) he calls again to tell me I need to stop calling and texting him. He accused me of sending him ten texts (yelling it over and over several times) when it was only two (I'd told him to check his timestamp phone log) and then he said more gently did I know he was trying everything in his power to stop her from driving to my house to kick my ass (tiny girl who lives a good 1.5 hr away from me at 1am, really?).
I laughed and said it didn't make any sense.She had him
David!!! You left me hanging, the sofa is cold.....................
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