why is she doing this?
I have been up front with her, and tolde her that i'm not gonna be anyones bit on the side. i even told her about my new girl - she got all weird about it. I mean i accept her being with guys. i'm not desperate, and i have moved on. she is strange - i mean she even said that if she saw me with another girl she would try to break it up. what does she want from me?
i accept friendship - and that is exactly how i treat her as a friend, but then she hits on me(way more than flirting,more physical contact). then when i say look, what are u doing? - she gets all weird, and says i'm not answering the question. then she gets all weird and says that i hurt her with my words - whatever, that wouldnt even be an issue if she didnt cross the line time and time again.
i accept friendship - and that is exactly how i treat her as a friend, but then she hits on me(way more than flirting,more physical contact). then when i say look, what are u doing? - she gets all weird, and says i'm not answering the question. then she gets all weird and says that i hurt her with my words - whatever, that wouldnt even be an issue if she didnt cross the line time and time again.
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Religious fundamentalists are hypocrites who appear to live clean lives on the outside, but on the inside they are full of the dirty electro-magnetic energies that become stored within those who judge others actions in life and/or express anger towards the spiritual choices of other people. Today conservative fundamentalist religious church leaders are just as spiritually corrupt and filthy, as the Pharisees 2,000 years ago.
Good point,? thank you Nancy05?
Now please mail it to this Lunatic, neocon monkey boy "Pat Robertson", perhaps he'll learn something out of it?.
Halleluiah?.!!!!
Religious fundamentalists are hypocrites who appear to live clean lives on the outside, but on the inside they are full of the dirty electro-magnetic energies that become stored within those who judge others actions in life and/or express anger towards the spiritual choices of other people. Today conservative fundamentalist religious church leaders are just as spiritually corrupt and filthy, as the Pharisees 2,000 years ago.
Good point,? thank you Nancy05?
Now please mail it to this Lunatic, neocon monkey boy "Pat Robertson", perhaps he'll learn something out of it?.
Halleluiah?.!!!!
no! its ok, and men dont think like us rememeber! mine does that sometimes-and i just go with the flow-and think ok next time we'll have our time-but im really into group things anyway, you should have gone, it would have been a laugh hanging out with all the guys. Plus they like to see how u get on with their best friends.
Think about it, he wanted u there-and he wanted them there, he could discuss all the guy stuff with them, and enjoy your company at the same time.an ok it was last minute-sucks a bit, as u were not prepared-but as your an aqua, i would have thought u could adapt quickly anyway, and just think ok.
Think about it, he wanted u there-and he wanted them there, he could discuss all the guy stuff with them, and enjoy your company at the same time.an ok it was last minute-sucks a bit, as u were not prepared-but as your an aqua, i would have thought u could adapt quickly anyway, and just think ok.
kris, if it's not a personal question, do you have a huge penis?
Sorry, it appeared he felt the same. Now he just wants to be friends and seems really distant. Should i send neutral texts so that he knows im still interested or just leave him alone completely? x
I'm with elly on this. From the way you recounted it, it doesn't seem like he did anything that bad, maybe just that he didn't consider that this might annoy you. I think this falls into the category of times when one person does something and they simply don't ever consider that it could annoy or upset the other person, only learning after the event how it peed off this person. I have done it and others have done it to me, irrespective of the signs involved. Blueaqua I think you should let it pass and not get too uptight about it.
I would just like to add some personal experience and information I have found on this subject.
While I am a hetrosexual female without any tendencies toward female attraction, I have a son fifteen years old that is clearly bisexual. He has been this way since birth. And had been aware of being different at an early age.
It is true that there are differences in brain structure and the way hormones are utilized in someone that is bisexual, or homosexual. And that the levels of the two hormones in a persons body play a part. It is not genetic per say, but developmental before birth. The womans body can determine what amounts of theese hormones are introduced to her fetus through (and or because of) certain medical conditions she may have during her pregnancy. I for one have high blood pressure and my medication had to be doubled during my pregnancy to prevent harm to my child. (cont)
While I am a hetrosexual female without any tendencies toward female attraction, I have a son fifteen years old that is clearly bisexual. He has been this way since birth. And had been aware of being different at an early age.
It is true that there are differences in brain structure and the way hormones are utilized in someone that is bisexual, or homosexual. And that the levels of the two hormones in a persons body play a part. It is not genetic per say, but developmental before birth. The womans body can determine what amounts of theese hormones are introduced to her fetus through (and or because of) certain medical conditions she may have during her pregnancy. I for one have high blood pressure and my medication had to be doubled during my pregnancy to prevent harm to my child. (cont)
My child would have suffered brain damage and excessive birth growth and weight if the medication was not administered. But the other side of that coin is that the medication has is own set of effects on an unborne child. The medication I had to take affected the hormone levels that my son recieved before birth, therefore deternining his sexual preferences and behavior.
It also works like this if I may explain. There are varying degrees of attraction to the same sex in bisexual or homosexual individuals based on the levels and balance of the two hormomes estrogen, and testostrone. My son falls right in the middle, what that means is that he is attracted equally to both females and males sexually. I can also say that he was not exposed to anything but the normal hetrosexual interaction between his parents, so environment exposure to his condition was not a factor. It is not learned, and can not be unlearned or unprogrammed.(cont).
It also works like this if I may explain. There are varying degrees of attraction to the same sex in bisexual or homosexual individuals based on the levels and balance of the two hormomes estrogen, and testostrone. My son falls right in the middle, what that means is that he is attracted equally to both females and males sexually. I can also say that he was not exposed to anything but the normal hetrosexual interaction between his parents, so environment exposure to his condition was not a factor. It is not learned, and can not be unlearned or unprogrammed.(cont).
The brain chemistry is different as well. It is just as natural and feels right to a gay man to be with another man as it is natural and right for a woman to desire being with a man sexually. If you could imagine a world where being gay is the normal way to be and being hetrosexual is not, we would feel pressure to conform or comply with what society dictates we should want. Now imagine if you were forced to be with the same sex and you had no desire whatsoever to do so. It would be distasteful to you and would cause emotional problems.
My point is this the attraction is very real and tangable for the people affected with the difference of sexual preference, and it is a hostile place to live in a world that refuses to understand that what they prefer is what is and feels normal and right for them. The difficulty starts when they are told from early on that they are defective, or that their preference is wrong and will not be tollerated by the rest of society. (cont)
My point is this the attraction is very real and tangable for the people affected with the difference of sexual preference, and it is a hostile place to live in a world that refuses to understand that what they prefer is what is and feels normal and right for them. The difficulty starts when they are told from early on that they are defective, or that their preference is wrong and will not be tollerated by the rest of society. (cont)
ignorance and fear, pluss religous beliefs make this situation a dangerous one for the affected person. To the woman whom stated that she does not think she was born a lesbian.You were born exactly as you were now, it is just that your balance of the hormones is not as dramatic as to cause a clear cut line between your natural preferences. You have always had the factor of being attracted to your same sex, just not in a strong enough degree that you acted on or recognized it within yourself until later in your life.
Think of a scale with hetrosexuals on one end and homosexuals on the other, people with the difference in gender preference range along the scale from ground zero for normal sexual preference to one fourth, to half, to the three quarters to groound one being homosexual preference on the opposite side of the scale. There are varying degrees of this condition that affect what percentage of attraction the person will be affected by.
(cont)
Think of a scale with hetrosexuals on one end and homosexuals on the other, people with the difference in gender preference range along the scale from ground zero for normal sexual preference to one fourth, to half, to the three quarters to groound one being homosexual preference on the opposite side of the scale. There are varying degrees of this condition that affect what percentage of attraction the person will be affected by.
(cont)