what you can't stand in others
Posted by Jahlia
What irritates me about others is what I see in myself.
What I hate about others, are things that I both don't do and can't find a reason for.
nicely put...
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Would you much rather a group of people tell you "Ohhh don't worry honey, men ignore you b/c they are secretly in love with you!"
That's what we all wanna hear during these moments right?!
I was hoping you posted this thread for the cold truth, not soothing lies
I didn't mean to sound harsh. Just that I feel so bad for women in these situations b/c it almost always ends up with the guy getting what he wanted while the girl is at home all confused, possibly feeling used & feeling silly for giving all of herself only to get half of a man in return.
My goal was to help you man up, suck it up, learn your lesson & come up with a plan of what you'll do differently the next time you're put in this situation with this same guy OR another guy. And sometimes manning up means being hurtfully truthful with self!
Been there, done that honey
That's what we all wanna hear during these moments right?!
I was hoping you posted this thread for the cold truth, not soothing lies
I didn't mean to sound harsh. Just that I feel so bad for women in these situations b/c it almost always ends up with the guy getting what he wanted while the girl is at home all confused, possibly feeling used & feeling silly for giving all of herself only to get half of a man in return.
My goal was to help you man up, suck it up, learn your lesson & come up with a plan of what you'll do differently the next time you're put in this situation with this same guy OR another guy. And sometimes manning up means being hurtfully truthful with self!
Been there, done that honey
Posted by james tate
sovereignty of another country?!
OR LETS STICK OUR HEADS IN THE SAND AND THEY WILL GO AWAY.
So please enlighten me. When a country like the U.S doesn't stick its head in the sand but instead sticks its nose in the affair of another state, what does it get accomplished? Oh and why does the U.S select certain countries to "help" while others remain neglected?
I'm not saying he's the scum of the earth!
Just saying that if you didn't know before, now you know for sure that this guy has it in him to take your time, body & energy & not give it back in return all b/c he skips town.
If you realize that he has that potential to hurt you within him, trust me, you'll think twice next time about having a passionate short-term fling with him or any guy b/c you'll be in tune with yourself & know that as a woman, you'd get attached & possibly be the only 1 up in the clouds when it's all over
I'm hoping that this feeling you're feeling is bad enough that it convinces you not to make this same mistake twice.
Just saying that if you didn't know before, now you know for sure that this guy has it in him to take your time, body & energy & not give it back in return all b/c he skips town.
If you realize that he has that potential to hurt you within him, trust me, you'll think twice next time about having a passionate short-term fling with him or any guy b/c you'll be in tune with yourself & know that as a woman, you'd get attached & possibly be the only 1 up in the clouds when it's all over
I'm hoping that this feeling you're feeling is bad enough that it convinces you not to make this same mistake twice.
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Sensitivity means becoming vulnerable or feeling a sense of overwhelming emotions b/c of what someone has said/done to you OR said/done to someone else
Sensitivity means that you respond negatively to energy. Even if that energy is just trying to help you or is positive (constructive criticism OR someone telling you a truth you don't wanna hear or accept in the moment)
Sensitivity means that you respond negatively to energy. Even if that energy is just trying to help you or is positive (constructive criticism OR someone telling you a truth you don't wanna hear or accept in the moment)
Empathy is different from sensitivity though. 2 different things
Having the ability to tap into other's energy & let it affect you to the point where that energy transitions to YOUR own mind/body is empathy. The ability to put yourself in someone else's shoes (even complete strangers) to the point that you can somehow feel the negative energy they feel, is empathy
Sensitivity is how you respond to what you "perceive" as negative energy.
Having the ability to tap into other's energy & let it affect you to the point where that energy transitions to YOUR own mind/body is empathy. The ability to put yourself in someone else's shoes (even complete strangers) to the point that you can somehow feel the negative energy they feel, is empathy
Sensitivity is how you respond to what you "perceive" as negative energy.
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