Help out a sag with your input please
Im pretty sure I know that he doesn??t. Im think it??s a mix of feelings I have either hoping im wrong or hoping that these thoughts will just go away. However for me committing is very hard and the fact that I have opened up and given my love told my deepest thoughts and fears to this man it??s a hard pill to swallow but I am just the same as most and Love is something I want returned. I don??t want to be old and dried up looking back wishing I had love in my life instead of companionship. It??s a hard call cause dude is so pretty awesome lots of chemistry same morals and a great time together he truly is my best friend with one huge key component missing.
Where do i go from here?
Where do i go from here?
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Posted by AnonymousUser
Studies have proven that the brains of gay men are anatomically similar to that of straight women. Studies have also shown that the brains of homosexual women are anatomically similar to that of a straight male. Gays and lesbians are not made, they're born.
You point to "studies" and "brains". First off, what studies? Secondly, I sincerely doubt that the "brains" you reference has anything to do with the anatomical structure you are born with, in accordance to the correlation you are trying to make. The "brain" develops neural connectivity rapidly at a young age just as a neurodegenerative disease alters the brain anatomically and functionally. These are either genetic predispositions but most often are responses to environment. Your statement "Gays and lesbians are not made, they're born" holds no ground. The brain rapidly adapts to sense stimuli, which you get from environment.
Nature may influence nurture but it is not a precursor to sexual preference.
With that being said, every person should be able to choose who they love
But, please. You need to read and analyze studies carefully because most science is BS. Yes, I said that. Generally the conclusions of a study are completely dependent on where the funding is coming from and what institution is conducting the research. Anyone in the science community with any experience could attest to that.
Posted by truecap
Sometimes it is. Just gotta to know when enough is enough and whether the reward worth the effort. You definitely can't lose yourself in the process.
Yeah, I agree with your earlier post and this one. Everyone has a breaking point and even a Capri woman, but I think your breaking point is the highest out of all women. In other words, it takes mighty a lot to break a cap woman. I've seen it first hand with 3 cap women in my life. One being my mom. Amazingggg mother and nothing beats her. She's a dime! One in a million. If I wanted to switch an aqua placement from my chart, I would trade it with being a Capri.
Posted by djbuck1Posted by tw1nk1e
People don't want the truth. They want to hear what they want to hear.
Pretty much true in life, and definitely true on DXP.
You don't have to read too many threads to learn that many (not all, but many) folks on here who "ask for advice" are just looking for support for decisions they have already made and courses of action they are dead set on. Those who disagree with them or who offer uncongenial advice are usually accused of "judging" (horrors) or of "not understanding what it's like." Usually, and mercifully, this is a one act play.
But I've lost count of the number of threads that postulate some incredibly stupid or venal course of action (Overture) that multiple commenters advise against, usually stating compelling reasons to support their position (Act One). The really clever OPs are the ones who fake everyone out until fairly far along in the opera ("Maybe I Will, Maybe I Won't"). But eventually, it becomes obvious that they are just working their plot, at which point the frustrated Chorus sings, "Why Did We Ever Feel Sorry For Your Dumb Ass?"
Act Two begins with the arrival of some Enabling Whackadoodle relativist who tells the OP to "Act on Your Feelings" and how "cruel, judgmental, anti-progressive" the other posters are. Enabling Whackadoodle then sings the "Follow Your Heart/Follow Your Feelings" aria, followed in quick succession by a barrage of rotten fruit and food scraps from the Chorus. Undaunted, the Whackadoodle sings all the louder.
In Act Three, Whackadoodle is joined in a touching duet by the OP, as they clutch one another and sing a stirring rendition of, "Damn You All, Damn You All, We'll Do As We Damn Well Please!" It's not uncommon for one of the Chorus to defect and sing "We're Not Perfect, So We Cannot Judge." The OP then profusely thanks the Whackadoodle for his/her "kindness and understanding," and goes on his/her merry way to commit adultery, try to steal someone else's lover, lie, cheat, steal, etc., while the Chorus rages in impotent fury.
This can go on until it gets so late that the theater closes or the audience just leaves in disgust. Exeunt Omnes.click to expand
In no way am I ruling out nature in the Nature vs. Nurture argument. However, environment has proven again and again to dictate sexual preference in the scientific community.