Thoughts On Marriage?
I've considered marriage in the past.. I'd rather just have the afterparty. Legally signing as one with somebody can create conflict if things don't work out. Some ppl are brought up in this life as devoted HC Christians. (no sex till marriage) Cant really help those ppl. That was the case for a friend of mine who got married at 18..... divorced at 23.
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THE ONES I KNOW JUST BITE ME AND DIG THERE FINGERNAILS INTO MY BACK
Posted by serendipity13
I met this Scorpio guy couple of months ago, whom from the first day he kept on telling me that he finds me gorgeous and can't keep his mind off me. Need to note that I met him in a wrok-related lunch. I brushed him off for a while but he kept on messaging me for 3 months until I started giving him more attention and started messaging him back.
He gave the impression that he is very interested in me and kept on saying that he likes me. However, we do live in different states (Me in NY and him in TX) but I do travel a lot to TX. He kept on telling me how unique and original I am and that he finds me super hot. I do have a strong personality and usually I dont fall for those compliments but something about his insistence and his very clever personality made me start falling. But still, I never was looking for a relationship with him, just wanted it to be a fun experience, great friends with benefit kind of thing. Here is the catch, I do want us to be friends too.. not just have sex.
We had sex yesterday for the first time, and needless to say it was amazing. However, i haven't heard from him afterwards, and not sure how to proceed. As I will be in TX in a week, and would love to see him, but a voice inside of me is telling me to not confirm plans with him as he is scared of committing, or he may take it as a sign that I want something further.
I really like this guy, but while I figure out what do I want with him, I dont want to lose him, how can I make sure he likes me too? and how can I play it right with him ?
Well all he had to do was message you. Apparently the messaged "compliments" worked and you screwed him not knowing the rules of FWB. It's not a matter of how you can play it right, he played you. Do some research on FWB, most women think they can handle it but they can't. Number one rule of FWB..you don't get to ask questions, and you don't get to blame the guy when you figure out you can't handle it.
Biggest goal atm: #1 Start getting up early in the morning. Night owl. I love mornings but they're too damn early.
#2 Occupy myself with something I'll care about so much I don't feel the need to seek entertainment on the internet. Half way there.
#3 Wait until this year is finally over so I can move the fuck away from this town. Ohhh sweet finish line!
#4 Learn how to concentrate for more than 5 seconds. Huge problem for me.
#2 Occupy myself with something I'll care about so much I don't feel the need to seek entertainment on the internet. Half way there.
#3 Wait until this year is finally over so I can move the fuck away from this town. Ohhh sweet finish line!
#4 Learn how to concentrate for more than 5 seconds. Huge problem for me.
I guess 1 and 4 could go under discipline the brain.
It's simple, you've been with this guy for 4yrs. Either you whole heartedly trust him or you don't. We can't answer that for you. On a different note, it's clear you are not comfortable with the distancing and not being able to talk with him about it without him walking away. If he's not an open book, how can trust be formed? He expects you to just deal with it. Before wasting another year, ask yourself..can you? If the answer is no, it's better to find out now than later. How old are you/he may I ask?
i cant handle routine... the same people and same stuff said or done gets on my high boredom point and i finally shake the boat to spice up things a bit... i am done with my country now and my hometown so i m moving to europe to seek a new challenge. i think we crabs are pretty self motivated and independent folk.... the stereotypes are mucking it up!
Posted by CluelessCancer
I think Crabs are boring.
no i just think we got many other things to do!
If you still want to be with him I would keep being friends with him. Right now he's just being moody or his feelings have been hurt so he's icing you out on purpose. He wants space right now. Eventually he does get over it, and feels it's safe for you to contact him or him to contact you. That's why its important for you two to still have a way to reach each other. Of you do delete him from facebook then make sure you have at least his phone number. I would know because my Scorpio did this to me a few times claiming he didn't know what he wanted, he wanted to check his options, but he was just saying that to get me down and boost his ego. I had thought about cutting all ties with him but for some reason I don't and eventually he starts contacting me again, we start talking again, we make up, and we get back together. However, we've been dating for awhile though. How long have you two been together and how long has it been since you guys spoke? Usually he acts like this and we "break up" for a couple of weeks.
The opposite of all my personals. Scorp Sun, Leo Moon, Sagg Merc, Scorp Venus, Aqua Mars, Cap ascendant. I suppose that would be the most interesting option.
Second choice would be a heavy fire chart, couse fire is my weakest element. I'd like to experience it.
Second choice would be a heavy fire chart, couse fire is my weakest element. I'd like to experience it.