UGH can a sag girl make relationships work?
i was a physically and mentally abused woman for 10 years, so sometimes great companionship seems worth it. but my heart says have it ALL.
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Posted by geminicandIePosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by CreepyPants
if this is you and you are not in a relationship... do you think these characteristics are affecting your path in getting to a relationship? and how?
Maybe...but I think guys are more intimidated by my *bitch* face, therefore they dont approach me, therefore they dont know if I'm smart, independent etc :/ lol
Hahahahhaa sorry, this is too funny!
You can't be serious. You don't have a bitch face....look at those baby-blues.click to expand
Hahaha thank you...I actually made an effort to smile some in that pic...majority of the time, its in bitch face mode lol
Posted by geminicandIe
I cannot picture myself with some weakling.
I'd crush him. In every sense.
well yea, my convo with mom got me thinking... just because they want a strong chick doesnt necessarily make them weak does it?
i see what you are saying though. i've dated guys who let me call all the shots and were almost scared to have their own opinions and faaaahk no. nuh huh.
i think i need to look for a nice equal playing field. it can be achieved.
Hahaha!
Up until 3 weeks ago I was seeing a Gemini man. He ended things with me, but recently he's gotten back in touch with me and we've chatted on and off the past couple of days. I've noticed from the beginning, when we first met, that any time I initiated chatting with him he seemed less into the conversation than he was when he would initiate it. The same goes with getting together. If I wanted to see him he'd have tons of excuses or couldn't commit to so much as a day ahead of time, but if I laid back and let him initiate he'd want to see me all the time. So I found myself deliberately not contacting him or asking to get together, because that seemed to be what he was most receptive to, but on a couple of occasions he'd complain that he felt if it wasn't for him contacting me or initiating getting together that we'd never talk or see eachother! In the instances where he's said this to me I took it as him wanting me to make an effort as well and when I did he ended up pulling away just like he did before. While we were dating I felt really confused by his behavior and couldn't figure out how to interact with him without it being a problem. I see this complaint a lot on the Gemini message boards, so I assume this issue isn't isolated to my Gemini, but my question is: Are Geminis aware they do this? Is he aware that he's more receptive when I'm distant and aloof than he is when I initiate? If he is aware why would he be upset by it when, obviously, that's what works for him?
Posted by geminicandIe
LIMM, you are not a bitch though.
I never see you attack people out of nowhere. You are mature and mind your own business and not a show off like rest of us leo mooners, lol
I think guys would be attracted to those qualities too.
Eh ive been known to be bitchy here and there around dxp lol. I dont think I am but others do....
but yeah my leo moon is much tamer than most..at least I think so, it might be different in person.
Posted by geminicandIe
Creepy, you are a sweetheart.
I have no doubt that you are smart and successful too, but I always think of you as sweet. Underneath it all. I mean unless I am terribly wrong about you, I know guys are attracted to that quality. So I am very surprised you are even single!
ehh... newly single? it's only been a few months. And there in... it's only been a month or so since i've been admittedly ready to date again and not be single anymore lol.
yea i'm sweet, but i'm typical cap where i'm cool 90% of the time and shockingly scary 10% , but the shock factor makes it seem like I'm scary 100% of the time.
by scary i mean strong willed, bossy and well... argumentative.
and thank you for the kind words geminicandle 
Someone needs to call the ASPCA! ASAP!
Posted by sandynadsPosted by CreepyPants
GC... I had a chat with my mum, who's gemini herself, and she really calmed my mind about all of this.
and having typed out that sentence... my jaw is dropping. my mom never calms me down. LOL
but what she said is that you should be yourself. be strong. there are men out their who LOOK for and want a strong woman.
STRONG CAN BE... WRONG!click to expand
that's just being STUBBORN, mr Taurus!
Posted by wunderboywonderThis one must be really evolved cus he communicates surprisingly well...
Why thank youclick to expand
Not you BoyBlunder....I was talking bout my latest muse...