Capricorn woman needs some insight
being selfish bxs I am loyal to the man and he hasn't a clue. We come from two totally different back grounds, I think with me being so independent mixed with my high drive. I'm thinking he's trying to make me stop and go get him. I'm just a lil gun shy on making myself that vulnerable. I believe if you want something, get up and make it happen. I respect his space and his in depth process of eliminating fears. I don't want to get mad and say "you know what, get over it!"
Very awkward loving this man, I don't want anyone else. I chose him the first moment I laid eyes on him.
I don't need him .. I just miss him
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24Posted by miamivirgoPosted by PotHeadVirgo24
Well to be honest, you might as well just move on now if waiting isn't your theme because mark my words you "will" have to wait again.
I disagree. I can't tell what this guy is thinking but as a Virgo you know we are slow. Sometimes because we are wrong in our slowness doesn't mean people are wrong in waiting for us. Today everybody wants everything now. She likes him and i am assuming the same from him. I think they should just hang out and just be in each other's presence and see what transpires. If he's being a jerk then she knows if he's ackward then she knows he likes her but has the Virgo curse.
Don't be so dismissive.
I AGREE!!! She should chill out and wait for everything great to unfold. However, since she's so set on "not waiting or chasing any man", the Virgo will probably take too long and on top of that you know we are generally slow at the pace of love. That's why I said she will probably have to wait again, so if she's not for it now, then she should just bounce.click to expand
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I should give the story that sparked this question.
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I??m not fb friends with my Man but his page is public, so anyone can see it. This girl likes every pic he??s in, comments on all his posts and shows up at all the shows. A few days ago he tells me he??s ignored a couple messages from her, asking him about his ???artistic inspirations.?? please..
My reaction is... typical for me. I??m territorial and have a bad temper. I had some things to say about thirsty women. I also had some things to say about men not setting boundaries soon enough because sometimes ignoring thirsty women makes them come on stronger, just to get a reaction. I said these things loudly. Pisces knows me and knows I??m going to go through my thing. (He also secretly loves it when I loose it) He tells me, lets me vent and doesn??t tell me to ???relax??, thank jesus.
*tip: don??t ever tell a Cancer to relax when they??re emotional*
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Other signs may be able to shake these things easier but stuff like this hits my core. I'll never be able to speak to this girl again without having evil thoughts.
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Pisces knows me and knows I??m going to go through my thing. (He also secretly loves it when I loose it) He tells me, lets me vent and doesn??t tell me to ???relax??, thank jesus. *tip: don??t ever tell a Cancer to relax when they??re emotional*
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Other signs may be able to shake these things easier but stuff like this hits my core. I'll never be able to speak to this girl again without having evil thoughts.
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I do have great gay-dar. Not sure if it's an Aquarian thing though
I have great gay-dar b/c I grew up in Atlanta, 1 of the gay capitals, & have been around/seen so many homosexuals that I've put 2 & 2 together. If you see that the majority of the males who ended up being gay walk a certain way, call it stereotypical, but I start to assume oh ok he's walking like a girl so he's probably gay.
If certain traits/behaviors/life style s all seem to have 1 thing in common---> homosexuality...then yes you start to believe that certain things mean homosexuality
The same rings true for other things too. If you notice that a lot of the players you've encountered in life, all just so happened to be smooth talkers or only call you after hours, your mind naturally starts assuming that any man who does those things must be a player
Of course you're wrong sometimes, but hey perception is reality
It's not even that feminism in a man means that he's gay. For every feminine gay man, there's got to be a masculine one. For every butch female, there's usually a feminine one. So you can't base your gay-dar entirely on feminism vs. masculinity b/c gay people fit under both categories
But you'd have to be exposed to enough homosexuality to know that. If you're from a city where you only know a man is gay b/c he's too feminine OR only know a woman is gay b/c she's too butch, you're forgetting that those 2 will always have a partner that is the complete opposite. Just b/c you may not see their partner doesn't mean they aren't out there.
In bigger cities though you get to see BOTH so your awareness is a lot higher
If yo
I do have great gay-dar. Not sure if it's an Aquarian thing though
I have great gay-dar b/c I grew up in Atlanta, 1 of the gay capitals, & have been around/seen so many homosexuals that I've put 2 & 2 together. If you see that the majority of the males who ended up being gay walk a certain way, call it stereotypical, but I start to assume oh ok he's walking like a girl so he's probably gay.
If certain traits/behaviors/life style s all seem to have 1 thing in common---> homosexuality...then yes you start to believe that certain things mean homosexuality
The same rings true for other things too. If you notice that a lot of the players you've encountered in life, all just so happened to be smooth talkers or only call you after hours, your mind naturally starts assuming that any man who does those things must be a player
Of course you're wrong sometimes, but hey perception is reality
It's not even that feminism in a man means that he's gay. For every feminine gay man, there's got to be a masculine one. For every butch female, there's usually a feminine one. So you can't base your gay-dar entirely on feminism vs. masculinity b/c gay people fit under both categories
But you'd have to be exposed to enough homosexuality to know that. If you're from a city where you only know a man is gay b/c he's too feminine OR only know a woman is gay b/c she's too butch, you're forgetting that those 2 will always have a partner that is the complete opposite. Just b/c you may not see their partner doesn't mean they aren't out there.
In bigger cities though you get to see BOTH so your awareness is a lot higher
If yo
Posted by LilliLou
Gosh darnit PR... I was hoping that you'd have a fool proof ABC, this still means I have to interpret the bloody buggers! (now where are the men at?)
"How I show I love a woman"
Neuro- I caught you a fish, and you can have half of my blood orange custard filled donut
Moon- I made you a mix tape ??? ?????
EEE- I makey teh scribblehs funneh and all will be lulz
BUT; all that asides, sounds like it is going well with the Merc Leo! He sounds pretty sweet- reading between the lines!
Haha, sorry. My input is based on observation and limited brief splash of "pay attention" cold water. I'm not even sure our watery (and cuspy) men would be able to tell us with any certainty that a man doing A means B. It's unique to the man, just like a fish would be unique to Rabbit or a mix tape to MoonMan or a Monkey to 3E.
As well, wouldn't those descriptions you posted be exactly what I am referring to? Their actions reflect their emotions?
Have you ever had someone on your mind and really had the greatest intention to call but shit comes up that distracts you and then when you do remember to call its too late and you'll have it on your mind till they call you?
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