Weird let down!
So I have finally tried an online dating website, and about a couple of weeks ago, started chatting with this guy (Aqua), not that thats really important i guess. Anyways, he asked me a couple of times for my mobile number, whuch i didnt give until a little later, so that we could communicate with Whatsapp. SO we agreed to meet, not a date exactly, just to have some coffee, and casual mmet up. So of course, he's disappeared, but i see hime connected everday. I only sent him 2 messages, nothing important, just "how are you" and whatever, and no response. He was quite keen about the number swap and i just dont get it, duh!! I know using the internet is always seen as kinda shady, but i have freinds who are married to people they met online so i seen for myself that it can work. The thing is, me and him weren't talking about dating, so i don think its been about feeling pressure etc, just a bit annoying, and so incredibly rude 
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I have never experienced these dissapearing acts everyone atributes to Cancer guys, it is hard to believe a guy that needs reassurance of your love and need to trust their partner would choose to disconnect for a month. If my boyfriend calls me twice and I don't answer or text back I know he worries, he gets upset if I forget to text him good morning, we haven't gone a day without communication since we met, this is his way of showing me he is commited to us since the beginning, guess I got lucky and I found a good one...
Posted by ScorpioFishAnd guys can usually tell when a women is desperate for some affection, and some guys will not hesitate to use it in order to get laid.
See, that's exactly where I am different than most other guys.
I think sluts are disgusting, because they probably have STDs and have serious mental issues that they are usually too arrogant to acknowledge and seek treatment for.
They gross me out on both a biological and psychological level.click to expand
You have mental issues to say something like this...
After excluding this idiot's opinions, this thread is super funny! good read
both - they can get infatuated quite often and can truly love one person for the rest of their lives. When they are infatuated they can say i love you and they really mean it at that moment. If that illusionary someone who they fell in love with happens to be the same person in real life - then they are caught for the long haul.
My sister is a cancer and i can see how she gets infatuated every half a year with a new person and she freely says nice things to those people
However she had someone she truly loved for more than 10 years (from teenage years to thirty). Most cancers crave the feeling of love. Temporary or forever - its a matter of the fact if they found The one.
In my personal opinion, it someone asked the meaning of true love, they need to look at how cancers can love.
My sister is a cancer and i can see how she gets infatuated every half a year with a new person and she freely says nice things to those people
However she had someone she truly loved for more than 10 years (from teenage years to thirty). Most cancers crave the feeling of love. Temporary or forever - its a matter of the fact if they found The one.In my personal opinion, it someone asked the meaning of true love, they need to look at how cancers can love.
well it takes love to get love so you probably didn't love anyone either so maybe focus on that
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I have never experienced these dissapearing acts everyone atributes to Cancer guys, it is hard to believe a guy that needs reassurance of your love and need to trust their partner would choose to disconnect for a month. If my boyfriend calls me twice and I don't answer or text back I know he worries, he gets upset if I forget to text him good morning, we haven't gone a day without communication since we met, this is his way of showing me he is commited to us since the beginning, guess I got lucky and I found a good one...
Oh man you are lucky! I wish mine would text me constantly but nope...He's too "strong" for that. But when he does text me and I don't answer he does get really worried even after only a few hours of waiting for me. So....hah...it is a huge double standard but I think it's cute. I don't mind. If I don't answer him for a few hours he would ask if I am over him. So cute.
Posted by Leeb911Posted by ScorpioFishAnd guys can usually tell when a women is desperate for some affection, and some guys will not hesitate to use it in order to get laid.
See, that's exactly where I am different than most other guys.
I think sluts are disgusting, because they probably have STDs and have serious mental issues that they are usually too arrogant to acknowledge and seek treatment for.
They gross me out on both a biological and psychological level.
You have mental issues to say something like this...
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The only thing that is funny right now is the image of your face in a doctor's office finding out about your new STDs for messing around with slutbags.
Alright party people, I have to get up in 5 hours for work. Later.
Me personally, no. My actions will probably show, but I will never put myself out there. Flirting is natural whether I'm interested or not. So only when I feel totally reciprocated, will I vocalize how I feel.
Its hilarious that people think you can just get stds if you sleep with a bunch of people. Hello, needles, hello just being sexual active puts you at risk. hello me and my husband don't use condoms because we are married, than he fucked a stripper in the asshole and now im sick.
how about some reality here.
how about some reality here.
Actually you know what, I won't message him tonight. I need to keep my head above water for a bit for the time being. Too much to get done. Can't get swept up in this even though it is just too easy to be all caught up in all of these strong emotions.
Talking to Cancers is better than reading all those damn romance novels or watching rom coms. I'm getting my fix right here.
Talking to Cancers is better than reading all those damn romance novels or watching rom coms. I'm getting my fix right here.