Ex Cappy Man - WTF...
Posted by Chance15
sounds fishy..he might be using you for a rebound..'any port in a storm' was the phrase that came to mind. he didn't respect the other girl that he (possibly?) broke up with you for..it doesn't follow that he respects you much less deserves yours. just my take
i guess it's possible that it put things in perspective for him..if it were me, i would just slow play it until he either demonstrates it or loses his patience and reveals himself for what you've hinted at.
Yeah. Something is definitely fishy about it. If it wasn't for his recent singledom, I would say hands down he was looking to reignite something. I've replied to his contact (so if he is thinking that he knows I'm open to it), but I have not initiated contact/meetups/etc. I am actively in the dating pool, which I have told him as I'm not the girl that will wait around for you to muck me around.
We always had an insane connection, and I guess I'm thinking if he is wanting to get back together I would be open to the discussion, but I would rather not be messed around by him on some random ego trip. He is worth the benefit of the doubt, but he really needs to take action to remove the doubts.