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Well, I'd follow through with the talk. It might help you get some closure. I'd be leery about anymore or even dating at this point. He might be trying to climb back out into society, so it might be helpful to him to have someone to do something with. I'd just meet him there. Don't let it be a date.
Posted by unknownghost
I decided not to send that message, I think something has happened for her to say what she said to me, I mean literally a few days before she told me she didn't deserve me she was telling me how she missed me, it's not fair for me to say those things to her and if something has happened in her life, even if she has decided that for whatever reason she can't be with me, I don't think it's fair for me to hound her like that. I might message her to see if she's okay and see if I can get her to talk to me, I miss her as a friend as well.
If this is the case just ask her if she is okay, how is she doing. Don't be too available, then you get friend zoned.
I went back and read your original question.
You wanted to know if you should continue being friends with him.
If you can be a friend and separate your feelings , sure why not. If you cannot then I would not suggest it.
It's not really that complicated. I think you wanted people to tell you that he likes you and he is with the girlfriend out of some sort of obligation. Sometimes it is good to have an outside perspective on a situation. It provides clarity.
The people here don't want you to get used by this guy. That's all. While some of their posts may seem a bit aggressive in writing, try not to miss the message because of the delivery.
You wanted to know if you should continue being friends with him.
If you can be a friend and separate your feelings , sure why not. If you cannot then I would not suggest it.
It's not really that complicated. I think you wanted people to tell you that he likes you and he is with the girlfriend out of some sort of obligation. Sometimes it is good to have an outside perspective on a situation. It provides clarity.
The people here don't want you to get used by this guy. That's all. While some of their posts may seem a bit aggressive in writing, try not to miss the message because of the delivery.
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Posted by IrresistableScorp
Posting this here because it is frustratingly accurate--how annoying.
Me: Blah blah blah--conviction, conviction, conviction--I was holding *fast* to my convictions.
Fish: (listens, nods head, laughs)
Me: And furthermore--more conviction...!
Fish: IS, you are so full of shit. lol
Me: LOL. OMG, why??? I mean, really, why do you think I'm full of shit? Seriously.
Fish: All these convictions you have. You use your convictions as a way to protect yourself. All this black and white, makes you feel secure. Your convictions make you feel safe. Not everything is black and white, you know.
Me: Hmm....
:/ I think he has a point. What do you think?
*pondering* I'll get back to you.
Posted by SugarfootPosted by FireyKitty
I'm a Leo and I Iove monogamy ^.^ the difference between the "hard to hold" and those who are "serial monogamous" is I look for someone that'll fulfill my needs at least 80% so I date a lot and am hard to hold on to because my standards. But honestly I'm not hard to hold on to because you're not getting too far if we don't mesh lol
But ya most earth signs (men and women) have cheated. No fire signs or air signs though, except for most Aries men I know, now they're hard to hold on to. At least to most women I've seen them with.
Agreed on the Aries male. Every single married Aries man I know has cheated on their relationship and/or marriage.click to expand
My Aries male friend tried to cheat on his fiance with me, calling me the prototype. I think it has a lot to do with arrogance of thinking they can do whatever with whomever and whenever.
He has depression who knows. What someone's mental state is until they get their medication right is never easy to predict.
Best advice stay away until he becomes more stable in his behaviors.
Best advice stay away until he becomes more stable in his behaviors.
Ah I don't know, it's just a bit confusing, I do want to tell her how I feel but if she has decided for whatever reason it's not to be, there is not much I can say to do otherwise, I know she wanted to tell me something last week which is why she called after sending me that message, she didn't send it and vanish, she was clearly thinking about me even though we didn't really get to the bottom of the problem, then there was a missed call after we said goodbye but when I phoned back she didn't answer, she must have wanted to say something else and now I feel like she's closed herself off to me. Maybe I just have to be patient and wait this out, if it's meant to be I guess it will be.
He texted me tonight. It was cold initially but it soon gave way to blatant references and finally culminated in him being sarcastic about something I had done to intentionally hurt him so that he would react. I was in shock and we were silent for 8 minutes (yes, I counted) before I replied, "I actually don't know what to say to that" and he replied coldly, "No need to say anything". Then, silence permeated before we (sort of) talked about things.
I'm really glad that I haven't been insane nor imagining it.
It's not quite the full disclosure of what I'd wanted, but for Mr Pisces to reveal this much tonight, I can tell you that it has been the most honest exchange we've had (and the bravest for me too!)
I suppose we are aware that we can possibly never be, but strangely, I'm at peace.
Like I said, it's not about us getting together, given our circumstances.
It's the knowing.
It's the affirmation that I haven't been delusional.
It's the closure.
5 more months and Mr Pisces will be back in my country for good.
Perhaps we'll have a better exchange then. Even if that doesn't transpire, I hope that I would find it in myself to have the courage to be his Friend.
Thanks, Deezie. I'd read your replies to another thread (also Scorpio vs Pisces) that rings a similar tune to my story. So I revisited my thread today and decided that if we had contact again -- instead of all those cryptic posting on Facebook and knowing that he reads my blog (which has become a Dear Diary of sorts)-- I would not hide behind my fear.
It's the knowing.
It's the closure.
I cannot emphasize enough on this salient point.
Yay for now.
I'm really glad that I haven't been insane nor imagining it.
It's not quite the full disclosure of what I'd wanted, but for Mr Pisces to reveal this much tonight, I can tell you that it has been the most honest exchange we've had (and the bravest for me too!)
I suppose we are aware that we can possibly never be, but strangely, I'm at peace.
Like I said, it's not about us getting together, given our circumstances.
It's the knowing.
It's the affirmation that I haven't been delusional.
It's the closure.
5 more months and Mr Pisces will be back in my country for good.
Perhaps we'll have a better exchange then. Even if that doesn't transpire, I hope that I would find it in myself to have the courage to be his Friend.
Thanks, Deezie. I'd read your replies to another thread (also Scorpio vs Pisces) that rings a similar tune to my story. So I revisited my thread today and decided that if we had contact again -- instead of all those cryptic posting on Facebook and knowing that he reads my blog (which has become a Dear Diary of sorts)-- I would not hide behind my fear.
It's the knowing.
It's the closure.
I cannot emphasize enough on this salient point.
Yay for now.