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Emily a Scorpio? No way! I could easily recognise myself in her! Adorable, vulnerable, focused and compassionate.
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Posted by sandynadsPosted by lisabethur8
I want to share something: was approached at the mall/supermarket by these fellows who were trying to sign up people for volunteer work worldwide and go out into the world, and they will pay for your airfare, accommodations, food, but all you have to do is sacrifice your time full time, and your company, your energy, leave your family and friends behind. They were really forceful, trying to make you BLEED your heart. I'm like, no, sorry, find someone else who has can fully do that FULL time, and be away from their family. It's as if he/these people have NO effing clue that there are people out there who don't want that. They think you should drop everything to save the world. It kind of god me irritated. I had to tell them truthfully, hey we have things to worry about in our own backyard k?
My father in law is sick, and plenty need us in our own household,family ect. Find someone who doesn't have ties k? They're so persistent.
sounds like an aqua... or jupiter in aqua.click to expand
was gonna say....some of the aquas are really into that stuff. not all aquas, and not all jupiter aquas either. mother in law might be an aqua venus conjunct jupiter aqua, and she has a mentality to save the world ...sort of. social work, social reform, but she would rather take care of her backyard first. although she is a world traveler, and has seen the poor and wretched. her heart doesn't bleed where she will get SWINDLED though. No way. She's told us stories of Indian taxi drivers who wanted MORE money from her, to take her to a destination, because she was a single woman on travel, and she was no way budging.
Nene Leakes: She used to boil my blood. It wasn't until recently that I actually started liking her. She's def. more humble. And I had no idea that Greg had done her so dirty in their marriage before their divorce. Before, she was being so tight-lipped about the real reason for their separation, but now that they've gotten remarried, she's telling all. Apparently, he cheated on her with half of Atlanta lol
Kenya Moore: She's 1 big bag of desperate. Walter confessed that their TV romance was a fake, & I'm not surprised. BUT what I wanna know is why Kenya would allow making herself look like some desperate woman be the image she wanted to depict of herself during her only 15 minutes of fame?! Why would she have wanted to be known as such anyways? She could've used her 15 minutes of fame to make a more respectable current name for herself
Khandi: I love that Khandi seems the most normal. Yes she's rich & yes she's a celebrity, but you can tell by the way she dresses (she's clearly lacking a stylist) & by the men she dates that she prefers to live a more normal life unlike her celebrity peers. I respect that. However, I'm sure her mom has at least 1 valid reason to not like her fiance Todd. Any time a woman with a lot of money dates a man with dramatically less money than her, he's going to be accused of being an opportunist, even if he's really not.
Phaedra & Apollo: They are the most mix-matched couple I've ever seen. Not b/c she's an attorney & he's a felon. But b/c they just don't have any chemistry. When they are being intimate on TV, it's coming from a place of extreme sexual aggression vs. a genuine sense of intimacy & affection. Seems that she wears the pants in the relationship & is always emasculating him
Cynthia & Peter: I have never understood this couple. I can't overlook the fact that Peter admitted last season & on numerous radio interviews that he goes to strip clubs almost every day. If he doesn't own the clubs, why the hell is a married man frequenting them every day? A big obsessive & disrespectful in the least!!!
Porscha: No matter how you slice it, she's right. Kordell was 100% wrong for using Twitter to dump his wife. She probably played the sweet, submissive, Susie-homemaker role to get the ring, but the minute she got it, she came into her true colors of being a woman who wanted to be an entrepreneur & socialite. Clearly, that's not what he wanted. I don't knock him for not wanting to be married to her if she's nothing l
Kenya Moore: She's 1 big bag of desperate. Walter confessed that their TV romance was a fake, & I'm not surprised. BUT what I wanna know is why Kenya would allow making herself look like some desperate woman be the image she wanted to depict of herself during her only 15 minutes of fame?! Why would she have wanted to be known as such anyways? She could've used her 15 minutes of fame to make a more respectable current name for herself
Khandi: I love that Khandi seems the most normal. Yes she's rich & yes she's a celebrity, but you can tell by the way she dresses (she's clearly lacking a stylist) & by the men she dates that she prefers to live a more normal life unlike her celebrity peers. I respect that. However, I'm sure her mom has at least 1 valid reason to not like her fiance Todd. Any time a woman with a lot of money dates a man with dramatically less money than her, he's going to be accused of being an opportunist, even if he's really not.
Phaedra & Apollo: They are the most mix-matched couple I've ever seen. Not b/c she's an attorney & he's a felon. But b/c they just don't have any chemistry. When they are being intimate on TV, it's coming from a place of extreme sexual aggression vs. a genuine sense of intimacy & affection. Seems that she wears the pants in the relationship & is always emasculating him
Cynthia & Peter: I have never understood this couple. I can't overlook the fact that Peter admitted last season & on numerous radio interviews that he goes to strip clubs almost every day. If he doesn't own the clubs, why the hell is a married man frequenting them every day? A big obsessive & disrespectful in the least!!!
Porscha: No matter how you slice it, she's right. Kordell was 100% wrong for using Twitter to dump his wife. She probably played the sweet, submissive, Susie-homemaker role to get the ring, but the minute she got it, she came into her true colors of being a woman who wanted to be an entrepreneur & socialite. Clearly, that's not what he wanted. I don't knock him for not wanting to be married to her if she's nothing l
Posted by VenusAquarius
I have dated outside my race quite often. I did not face any major challenges based on race.
However, I did experience a few things that I considered minor. I don't easily fit the black woman stereotype...and comments have been made to that effect. However, that is something I have lived with all my life.
Most importantly, both black men and white men have pointed out that I don't fit the stereotype. So, I can't truly call it a race thing. It's probably more of a cognitive miser thing. Being able to think you can fit everyone in some sort of box must give some people some sort of comfort.
My husband, to this day, teases me about various ways that I am "different." But, he also says that's why he loves me.
So, trying to stereotype based on race is probably the only annoying thing. It only becomes annoying if the person is obnoxious about race (I call it being "racey") or expresses some disappointment about it.
For example, I dated a white Sag who expressed some kind a feeling about and stereotype about poverty, education, and unwed motherhood that I did not fit. I was insulted because the "issue" kept being vocalized to where it seemed he was disappointed or intimidated...I don't really know but, I know it felt negative. What disappointed me is that he was so cool, knowledgeable, and basically loved black culture. So, WTF?
I know exactly what you're talking about. One Bangladeshi lady straight up told me that I don't have 'black people feet'. Wtf is black people feet? I was so offended & angry, I wanted to slap her in the face tbh with you, but I calmly asked her to explain what she meant. She meant I was not ashy. LOL! I just explained to her that I take good care of myself & that being ashy has nothing with being black, it just means that someone is not moisturising their skin right or whatever. She pissed me off though.
....Clearly, that's not what he wanted. I don't knock him for not wanting to be married to her if she's nothing like he thought, BUT the way he did it was just pitiful & only something a pu***sy would do!
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=white% 20knighting
White Knighting
White Knighting typically occurs when their are two men and one girl. White Knighting is easy to spot and very annoying when you are trying to get laid with a crappy wingman.
"White Knighting is when one man is trying to get a girl into his bed while in the same area as his friend, his friend (if he is a White Knight) will typically attempt to disperse the conversation by presenting his chivalrous words such as: "Have some respect for women, Johnny" or "Miss, he's just trying to get laid" while simultaneously attempting to get laid himself by showing respect to the women. A White Knight will never act chivalrous when he is not around another guy.
Jim: Hey babe, you wanna go back to my place? I'll make you some food.
Lancelot: Jim, your just trying to sleep with her, I see this every time we go out
Girl: Excuse me? I'm not a slut. (leaves)
Jim: What the hell Lancelot, quit your White Knighting, I was about to get laid.
Lancelot: Dude I know! We should totally go out again tomorrow! I'm about to get that girls number, she's totally into me."
white knighting sounds like a Lancelot/Arthur/queen Guinevere thing.
White Knighting
White Knighting typically occurs when their are two men and one girl. White Knighting is easy to spot and very annoying when you are trying to get laid with a crappy wingman.
"White Knighting is when one man is trying to get a girl into his bed while in the same area as his friend, his friend (if he is a White Knight) will typically attempt to disperse the conversation by presenting his chivalrous words such as: "Have some respect for women, Johnny" or "Miss, he's just trying to get laid" while simultaneously attempting to get laid himself by showing respect to the women. A White Knight will never act chivalrous when he is not around another guy.
Jim: Hey babe, you wanna go back to my place? I'll make you some food.
Lancelot: Jim, your just trying to sleep with her, I see this every time we go out
Girl: Excuse me? I'm not a slut. (leaves)
Jim: What the hell Lancelot, quit your White Knighting, I was about to get laid.
Lancelot: Dude I know! We should totally go out again tomorrow! I'm about to get that girls number, she's totally into me."
white knighting sounds like a Lancelot/Arthur/queen Guinevere thing.
aww good for you beckster!
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Posted by WaterCupPosted by VenusAquarius
I have dated outside my race quite often. I did not face any major challenges based on race.
However, I did experience a few things that I considered minor. I don't easily fit the black woman stereotype...and comments have been made to that effect. However, that is something I have lived with all my life.
Most importantly, both black men and white men have pointed out that I don't fit the stereotype. So, I can't truly call it a race thing. It's probably more of a cognitive miser thing. Being able to think you can fit everyone in some sort of box must give some people some sort of comfort.
My husband, to this day, teases me about various ways that I am "different." But, he also says that's why he loves me.
So, trying to stereotype based on race is probably the only annoying thing. It only becomes annoying if the person is obnoxious about race (I call it being "racey") or expresses some disappointment about it.
For example, I dated a white Sag who expressed some kind a feeling about and stereotype about poverty, education, and unwed motherhood that I did not fit. I was insulted because the "issue" kept being vocalized to where it seemed he was disappointed or intimidated...I don't really know but, I know it felt negative. What disappointed me is that he was so cool, knowledgeable, and basically loved black culture. So, WTF?
I know exactly what you're talking about. One Bangladeshi lady straight up told me that I don't have 'black people feet'. Wtf is black people feet? I was so offended & angry, I wanted to slap her in the face tbh with you, but I calmly asked her to explain what she meant. She meant I was not ashy. LOL! I just explained to her that I take good care of myself & that being ashy has nothing with being black, it just means that someone is not moisturising their skin right or whatever. She pissed me off though.click to expand
Bwaaaahahah!
Did you ever say what his star is?
He "approves" lol...sounds like a Virgo
He "approves" lol...sounds like a Virgo
Posted by Nala13
Thanks for all the comments everyone. I was wondering about things like food, music hobbies you considered fun but they didn't, you know cultural differences. I was married to an African and although we were both black the cultural differences were a nightmare.
The watching me for 7 months didn't creep me out. In fact, I was flattered. What he said was I noticed you back in May but I didn't say anything I just kept looking at you.
I don't get" outraged or creeped out easily". In fact, I think most of my thoughts are probably on the "huh, WTH," side.
I doubt anything will come of it. I don't pursue men. So unless he does or says something, this will just be a crush. It did make me feel special, I won't lie. The funny thing is I didn't even realize that I needed to feel special.
It's a chance to learn new things on both sides like I previously mentioned. As far as I'm concerned, things like music & food have no race....if it sounds great to the ear or tastes delicious to the mouth...HEY! You really do not have to eat anything you find nasty. As for hobbies, I personally don't care about that, I've got mines & we don't really have to share them..that's what friends are for.
Both my exes were into cricket, I find it boring so I didn't really take part in any of that...they did it with their friends & we bonded over other things we had in common ie. movies, books, etc.
Posted by scorpiogirl99Posted by ScarlettGirl
Its actually quite soul destroying for the non-Taurus.
We talk every day and then without warning, nothing for days, weeks, no response, no "hey I need some by-myself time" nothing. The other person, if they care, is then left to try and figure out...is he mad?...did I say something wrong?...has he been hit by a car?....eloped with someone he met in a bar?
I don't care how strong you are or independent you are, when someone you care about seemingly evaporates into thin air without a word, it eats away at you, it strips the love and trust and tenderness away and replaces it with fear, and hurt, and anger. It turns you into someone tied to your phone or email...in case you get some news, some contact, some crumb of attention....and that is cruel.
This explains perfectly how I feel about the hot/cold episodes and disappearing acts the Taurus I am in love with pulls all the time. And then, just when I am ready to give up completely, he will come back like nothing happened. Even going so far as to question me, asking ME what my problem/issue is, and why I am ignoring him. But I think I have finally reached my breaking point with him, and MUST let him go. And the next time he comes around with his crumbs, dropping them at my feet, throwing his charming smile at my face....he is going to see nothing. Because I don't DO crumbs. I am too good for this, I have too much to offer, and I am not going to sacrifice another ounce of my self worth for this man who OBVIOUSLY could care less about me.
I am glad I read this (and other) threads on the subject. I now see him for what he really is (and this is after 5 years of this nonsense.) What he is always pulling IS cruel, whether he thinks so or not. So I am moving on. (at least I am going to try....)click to expand
OMGEE It's like we are in the same situation! I'm tired of crumbs! The push/pull, the yoyo, the bs!