im a flaker....
Posted by krysrenee7Posted by DMV
And I cant, wont stop. I hate making plans, something better comes along and dammit its Flake City.
I hope you're not bragging about this trait in you b/c it's not a good thing
Standing people up, being unreliable & being wishy-washy are not flattering, nor are they things that people want to put up with.
It's NOT going to kill you to pick up the phone & cancel, nor is anyone asking for a million bucks by expecting you to not commit to something that you truly didn't wanna commit to.
It's all fun & games until someone starts doing you guys that way. Then it's not funny. Life is too short. Time is all we have. Time is the worst thing you can waste, whether it's yours or someone else's.
Make up your mind & figure out what you want. Until then, don't drag others down b/c you can't seem to get it together. It's not cute, nor is it mature.click to expand
Agreed and its really a sign of emotional immaturity
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Posted by unknownghost
So would you advise I send her a text just saying hello and that I'm thinking about her or just leave it, I don't want her to feel like I've gone off her and I certainly don't want her thinking she has pushed me away, because sometimes it feels like she is doing that, but subconsciously if you know what I mean?
idk, do what comes natural...
She made plans with you then broke them. You shouldn't reward a Cancer for their bad behavior. Being emotional doesn't warrant being an ass.
Let her contact you. If she is genuine she will when she's feeling up to it. If you're understanding of her, just be that
I'm happy for you Becks. I remember the Scorpio that was so toxic. At least I think he was a Scorp. The one that you had arrested or he had you arrested. Can't recall.
Good Luck with Cancer Men.
Good Luck with Cancer Men.
Yes! I briefly dated a Pisces a couple of years ago. We eyed each other for a very long time before one of us gave in. I rarely make the first move, and he was very passive which ultimately led to our demise but I did feel some sort of a magnetic pull, I just really wanted to get to know him, and vice versa.
I would love to find that again with somebody. And have it last!
I would love to find that again with somebody. And have it last!
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Posted by truecap
So, has anyone tended bar? Curious to hear some feedback.
Very briefly, in my 20's.
I despised waitressing/serving (it's an art, and I tip well), but cocktail servers don't have to bother with perpetual refills of "sweet or unsweet" tea, making sure the food is right, and kids making a mess smooshing french fries all over the floor, etc.
It's really hard to screw up booze.
It has its own pitfalls, to be sure-- but they are more manageable to me.
One time, a couple had been drinking for a few hours-- and they were nothing out of the ordinary-- but not only did they stiff me, they left a bible tract that was folded up and printed to look like a $ 20 bill.
That was wrong on SO MANY levels.
And yeah, a lot of folks are rude, but there is usually someone apologizing for them and tipping to offset the fact that they broke the table (or something... lol)-
Obviously, I'd rather have the latter party return. Jeez.
But it's a good skill to have-- you never know. *shrugs*
Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Sagittarius.
But I often feel like they're just doing it for the praise. But I don't trust many, so maybe that's why I feel that way.
this is what i see in pisceans, aquarians and caps... It's always for acknowledgement. Scorps, libras, and cancers will help because it's the right thing to do, and not for praise, IME.
Posted by xMoonManPosted by PhoenixRising
Scorp
Tip #19
Do not multi-text when discussing the state of your relationship, because you will inevitably send the wrong text, such as "I think it's time to move on" to the person you are seeing and not your cousin, from whom you are are seeking advice.
hahahahaha.....oops
a parapraxis perhaps?
(Freudian slip)click to expand
Ha. I believe so (parapraxis). Or perhaps the sober version of a drunk text.
Posted by LilliLou
O-oh... Sounds like a 2 bottle of wine day PR!
...and a block of dark chocolate with caramel filling (or strawberry)...
I'll take the chocolate and the strawberries please......and some brownies, with ice cream......cheese cake too.
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