Sneaky Libra man - can someone explain this
So still no confessions about said Bond money for ruined property, found out that the debt has been paid out and that Libra man paid it out without letting me know from his wages.
I ask how the outcome is going with child support only to get that it's in the hands of the welfare payment people and they haven't contacted him, which is contry to what I know, they have contacted him plenty.
This is all getting very twisted and un-comfortable now, we live together and I want to ask him politely to tell me everything or move out, but he'll have no where else to move to now because of his job and I know for a fact that his wages has been going to pay off this debt so his ex and child don't have any black marks against their name to rent in the future.
And to top it all off his older children keep asking for money, not small amounts mind you and he doesn't advise me of this?????
Am I asking too much to know where the wages are going? Or am I just being too nosy. Very conflicted about this I have to say, can't weigh up what to do here.
I ask how the outcome is going with child support only to get that it's in the hands of the welfare payment people and they haven't contacted him, which is contry to what I know, they have contacted him plenty.
This is all getting very twisted and un-comfortable now, we live together and I want to ask him politely to tell me everything or move out, but he'll have no where else to move to now because of his job and I know for a fact that his wages has been going to pay off this debt so his ex and child don't have any black marks against their name to rent in the future.
And to top it all off his older children keep asking for money, not small amounts mind you and he doesn't advise me of this?????
Am I asking too much to know where the wages are going? Or am I just being too nosy. Very conflicted about this I have to say, can't weigh up what to do here.
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...and a block of dark chocolate with caramel filling (or strawberry)...
I'll take the chocolate and the strawberries please......and some brownies, with ice cream......cheese cake too.
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