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You don't have to be empathetic to be strong. And how do you know what she was feeling? You don't so don't make assumptions. Unless she killed your family with no remorse you have no idea whether she was empathetic or not. All based in assuming. And just because you say you're empathetic doesn't mean you are. But I wouldn't know.
Thank you guys for your responses.
LetItB I would ask my dad if he were open like that but unfortunately he is not. He is actually really awkward about the whole situation. It's kind of funny.
Sunnyvirgo83 you are totally right. I should not be spending my time trying to get answers for something I cannot change. It's just hard not to want to know when you care. If I could be happy with knowing that I cannot change a damn thing then I would live my life not worrying. Unfortunately it`s not that easy. I still have a life. I spend time with friends, go to yoga, etc. Now I am just stuck worrying about getting hurt while I try to distract myself with the rest of my life. haha
I guess it`s possible he thinks I need space or maybe he just lost himself in the whole thing and realized he needs space. He`s been the most open person I have ever dated so I would like to think that he would tell me.
Ixion120 - I am going to give it time. It`s the only thing I can do and maybe it will pass quickly. Fingers crossed.
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