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May 03, 2007Comments: 0 · Posts: 198 · Topics: 12
Stop telling her you love her.
You've come on too strong I think.
I'm an Aries, single mom, one teenage daughter - so I know what I'm talking about.
You're coming on too strong. She's got a lot to think about and sort out and she's telling you "I have to do this alone and figure it out" no matter the reason she just can't up and say "yep, you're right, you are the perfect guy, let's do this"...she's just not. That's not how Aries operate.
Where's the adventure, the chase, the fun and games. I don't mean playing games, but Aries is all about excite and fun. We're all about the challenge, again, NOT about playing games, but we don't like it when a guy just throws himself at our feet - as perfect as you sound.
Yes, she's creating her own misery; but it's what we do sometimes - we won't stay there long - give us time, us Aries will snap out of it pretty quickly - but on our own time.
Hang around and wait all you want, but I suggest truly giving her some major space - I'm talking weeks of no contact; no flowers, no texts just to say "hi". Give her a chance to reach out to you and when she does, don't profess everything you feel right then and there. If she doesn't contact you, well as the saying goes, "if it's meant to be she'll come back, if it it's not meant to be LET IT BE."