Signed Up: Feb 04, 2013 Comments: 1 · Posts: 9186 · Topics: 179
Regarding the crack smoking Canadian mayor, the state by state and government corruption/scandals etc... or something as simple as witnessing a crime and just standing there like an idiot. ???The world is a dangerous place to live; not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it.?? ?? Albert Einstein
Why do people turn their heads? Are you a coward?...or are you just ignorant? I realize there is an epidemic of painkiller addiction in this country and those people don't count for anything, but really, this quote speaks the truth. That is all.
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It occurs to me that Aries females have a real "I don't need Anybody for Nothin' attitude. This attitude is quite correct, imho. Also, "if you got somethin' you think I might like, bring it on!" would be another way of looking at this whole thing.
I have this mindset in relationships. My Venus is in Aries.
Signed Up: Feb 26, 2008 Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
Posted by sweethearts She moved 8 months ago from here to begin again in our own country and they split 5 days ago. She is an adult and also needs to process what she is going through, mother or not, I don't have the right to interfere with anyones life and I hold no fears of her hurting herself. I just feel helpless as I can't ease her pain.
Don't apologize for feeling that way. Not only are you her mother, but you're a woman AND a woman whose been down that road before. So it makes perfect sense that you feel helpless. It's a natural instinct for a woman/mother to want to instinctively apply glue to something that seems to have fallen apart. Of course you can't always do that, BUT the desire to want to is normal & is not wrong or anything to apologize for. If you freak out, she'll freak out! She doesn't need your sympathy, she needs your listening ear & understanding. Big difference. If everyone around her starts to mope & feel sorry for her, she'll take on the victim mentality & will just wallow in self-pity...a self-pity that is caused by feeding off of others feeling sorry for her. Damn. I hate hearing stories like these! It's like no matter what you say or do, you know that the pain won't go away for them. Sometimes you've just gotta take a step back, let her cry it out, let her deal with her grief on her own & in the way SHE sees it best (and not the way YOU want her to handle it), pray for her & wish her the best.