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My husband still gives me butterflies =) He cooks for me, remembers all the little things, tells me he loves me every day, & shows me off any time he can (I can't tell you how many people tell me how he smiles when he talks about me!) We go to church together almost every Sunday. We pray together. We play board games together.
We made an agreement 10 years ago to not ever go to bed angry with each other & so far, not once have we ever broken that promise!
He helps me equally with our kids. We have sex regularly. We dedicate Tuesday & Sunday nights for our "US" night where we agreed to go to 1 place we've never been to before. And if we can't b/c of finances or weather, we get a babysitter & just have "us" time at home.
We allow each other to be free & to be our natural selves. We trust each other. We give each other space when either of us needs it. He has his own friends & his own separate life outside of me & vice versa.
He's never disrespected me, abused me in any way, or left me.
Our marriage is def. not a fairy tale. We've had our ups & down like every other couple, BUT I couldn't ask for anything more!
And for anyone who might say this is made up or unreal, screw you! Just b/c YOUR love life hasn't treated you nicely doesn't mean that some people didn't get lucky! I got lucky!
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I had a Leo supervisor who was a micro-manager.
NEVER try to micro-manage a Cap!
I think I told him to fuck off once.
Now, myself, I always befriended my staff. Although I would smack them upside the head if need be (literally - wtf u doing? *smack*). They wuved me though. They always knew they could come to me no matter what and I would support them or tell it to them straight.
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I think you should fly to her for a daytrip ... you girls go out to a matinee and see a couple tear-jerking chic flics, you both cry your eyes out for hours, together, then go splurge on ice cream, spend the remainder of the day, into night at the airport together, after the tears have dried up ... and just talk to each other about your pains, so the other can relate.
You'd probably be surprised at the strength you'd both gain from sharing, rather than talking on the phone, and telling about life.
There's nothing to tell her, just as there's nothing to tell you, or anyone else ... but, sharing in emotional suffering with her, while the injury being to a movie character, will open the flood gates for both of you .... so you can cry your eyes out.