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Mar 03, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 256 · Topics: 24
I have left a msg each day. Umm.. we jus met a month and half ago
I am in a custody battle and was feeling down. Thought I would visit him. As I approached his house I noticed a vehicle. In thedriveway. OMG he was leaving his house with.a female. I felt pretty stupid for arriving. Unannounced. He saw me driveby too. Ugh!! Because we have an open relationship. I didn't say anything to him.about it. But it did hurt. A couple days gho by and he asked me to come see him. He's telling me how bad the last couple. Weeks had Been and threw in how his friend had just broke up with her boyfriend. And has been bugging him to hand out with her. He said how it bothered him cause she only comes around when this happens. Well the stalker in me came out. A few nights later intuition tells me to drive by his house. Annnd her car is there. Feeling hurt and sick. I texted him "I think this is goodbye for me. I am too emotionally. Attached and its not getting better. Im sorry for changing the rules half way through. Thank you for the memories " he replies. "I do understand, Hope things work out with your daughter, Sorry" Im panicking now cos when I left his house I thought I seen his car coming up the road. And I ran home to get something. Thought I waoukd "stalk" his house...I know creepy. And her car was gone...im freaking were they just hanging and not ypy know...like I thought. OMG!! What should I do. Other last month he wax being so kind and gentle, sharing his thoughts and ideas. He even freaking cuddled me for the first time. I think I screwed up with my dam jealousy ...please help....and excuse the typos...I did this from my phone...what a pain.
Also, I'm between jobs. 2 weeks ago he mentioned his company had an Opening
I made a joke asking him that you do realize this would put us in the same.building together. He said I know it would. Be distracting.
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
Well, you didn't screw up anything as far as a relationship with him goes. He made it clear this was just a fling with no strings attached. This wasn't going anywhere from the get go. His reaction to your calling it off text was straight forward with no question about that.
However, not only is your stalking him making you look crazy and psychi, but you are also hurting YOURSELF! Stop this now!!!!!
I'm sorry for your pain. I know you're hurting. Just take it one day at a time and it will get better. Try to find some fun things for you and your child to do together and work on building that relationship.
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Apr 10, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 159 · Topics: 27
Or Aquarius?
Just wondering what sign is mote compatible with aries.
Experience?
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
For what it's worth, this:
"I think this is goodbye for me. I am too emotionally. Attached and its not getting better. Im sorry for changing the rules half way through. Thank you for the memories "
was a very classy way of calling it off.
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