Does anyone ever find it overwhelming to be a sag?
I sometimes find that my non stop mind gets overwhelmed. im always looking for a hobby to enjoy with in moments sometimes im bored of it and am on to the next... i can never seem to finish anything i start. i sometimes just feel sooooo bored with life i want something to happen. i love change and if there is nothing going on im not happy... with Work i get bored really easy been in the same field for 14 years but have moved companies about every 2 to 3 years in that 14 years... sometimes all this moving, thinking, bordom gets to me..
I over think everything. im very sensitive to other peoples emotions they can litteraly effect my life negativly is someone close to me is having a hard time or moody..
how do you guys cope with all this or am I alone here? maybe its not Sag traits and just me being bat crap crazy lol.
I over think everything. im very sensitive to other peoples emotions they can litteraly effect my life negativly is someone close to me is having a hard time or moody..
how do you guys cope with all this or am I alone here? maybe its not Sag traits and just me being bat crap crazy lol.
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Posted by tiziani
I feel the same way as WaterCup's post. I find it a lot of pressure when someone tries to read my mind, as you're trying to do by interpreting these things with his family (unless he told you as much). Assume you don't know what he's thinking, and both work your way from there with some realistic communication.
Then again, I'm no expert at live-in relationships.
It's too fast, doubts are bound to happen. Moving in together, talking about babies...within 2 mnths. No!
Taurus! wl tel lies a lot to keep his harem with him, they cn talk to multiple girls at d same time while teling u u r d one he talks to. Untl u found out hes having sop w/ them. Yuck!
This wl going to be a never ending rolercoaster ride, I didnt enjoy d ride... Ints stagnant, n0t m0ving, & I just wasted my time
Posted by M143
Ladies,
To date a taurus man is somewhat a fairytale. But when they started to roll over their possessive
and jealous nature.. it freaks me out because I can't handle drama anymore in a relationship.
so beware and avoid not to confident... save yourself from heartaches.
I've red quite a few of your comments on the taurus board... and is it just me or you just seem to be really unhappy with your current Taurus partner? I mean.. why are you still with him? And to get back on the main topic...I think it's ok to not wanting to settle down when you're still young... there are soo much things to do and experience...but eventually everyone will want to settle down... the tricky part is to find the right person and the right timing for the both of you. Don't pay too much attention to astrology compatiblity and just be yourself and enjoy yourself... you'll eventually figure out what you need and what you want in a partner and in a relationship. I'm an Aries and it took us quite some time... but I'm going to marry my Taurus ex/current sweetheart this upcoming summer...Aries and Taurus aren`t really meant to be with each other... but it couldn't be more wrong.... we love each other to bits and I will not trade him for the whole world! What I'm saying is DARE to get involve and DARE to love and you'll never regret it no matter what the outcome will be. Good luck to you!
Posted by tiziani
I am biased against live-in relationships, but I've seen people get happily married after 3 months so anything is possible(and yes they are still married until this day)
Well there are exceptions obviously, but the difference here is that one of the parties involved is feeling pressurized. It's all good when both people are fine with the speed of how things are going. My girl here needs to hold back a bit. There was a speed issue also with the last guy she was dating, the leo. She wrote him letters expressing her love or whatever it was. I sincerly don't want her to mess this up by being too fast too soon. She honestly needs to relax just a bit. Some of the best meals are cooked on low heat.
Now that she knows how he feels, the best bet is to back off a bit & give him space to reconsider. I wouldn't want to be around somebody that feels pressured by our relationship, I'd instinctively back away.
My problem with making these sorts of wish lists is that we are wishing for idle characters. Anyone can fit the bill at any instance of time but will he/she stay that way forever more? Not in every way no. Some things will stick and some things will come and go.
But can we all accept that? Can we accept that maybe we'll gain a lot weight down the road, become more irritable, lazy, draining, sad, or boring for a time?
I don't know about you guys but I don't want to look at people and compare them to base desires. I want to look at someone, feel, and spark new desires that can be fulfilled without effort simply by being. That is all.
But can we all accept that? Can we accept that maybe we'll gain a lot weight down the road, become more irritable, lazy, draining, sad, or boring for a time?
I don't know about you guys but I don't want to look at people and compare them to base desires. I want to look at someone, feel, and spark new desires that can be fulfilled without effort simply by being. That is all.
Posted by mindofaquarius
nah I don't come on too strong - he told me about the issues with his family and that both his mum and sister want him to be married haha and yes its partly about me because I came up with a hearty problem at first. so I just tried to male him understand me because he asked me to explain it to him how and why I think so. I won't move out either because he doesn't want me to move out (I still have my old place until feb so I could if I wanted to and if he told me to, my place is 5 mins from his) so he really wants me to stay. I don't see common sense in running away from problems, I don't cling to him either, when we see eachother at home after work then he usually spends 1.5h at the computer and the rest of the evening he joins his sister and me on the couch watchin tv. I'm the most independent gf he had cuz I keep myself busy. so far so good, I didn't start the baby talk and I told him to stop talkin about it even if its a joke. he needs to find a way to sort it out with his mum, if it pressures him so much then he should tell her.
Well do your thing then. I was just giving an opinion based on what I read.
Posted this a dozen times before, The Maestro of Sensuality I believe. "...braggadocio..." 
Posted by ScorpioFish
I want a kiss under the mistletoe.
Nowwwwwwww!!!!!!
+1, I've never had one! Folks around here don't fancy mistletoes it seems, because I've never even seen one
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