Beware of Stillwater/ Confession 4
Likewise, miss. It has been some time since you've been sighted around these parts. Will you be staying for a bit?
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Posted by anonymousheart
AHAHAHHA. This is why I was keeping our relationship PRIVATE, bc for some reason when you put it out there all the triflin girls come forward. Seriously two seconds later I see some random from PR writing on his wall "hey cutie" hahaha...weaksauce. Can't wait to see how he tries to skimmy out of that response while still being the nice guy. This should be interesting...
so funny. What sun/moon venus/mars is your man again?
your man sounds like a lady killer, magnetizes everyone and every woman who is single, comes running.
anyway, it's ironic you say that....i'm just learning this myself.
I'm rational and sometimes I don't know if what I feel is normal when it comes to relationships. I'm also very patient, understanding and naive, and sometimes people just abuse my good side.
With that said, lately, my man and I have been fighting a lot mostly because of disappointments.
Few examples:
-He will invite me over his place to hangout and spend time with him and do something he knows I like. Then, after 30 minutes he will find what we do boring and will wanna do something else something he's into and I'm not. We will fight, because I drove an hour to go to his house and he lets me down. Usually he realizes he's in the wrong and will say he's sorry and we will go back to what we were doing first. But each time, we argue and fight.
-He will plan things with me. Like dinner or a movie, and in the day text me to tell me plans won't work because he will hangout with someone else.
-There's a girl he works with. She's into him. And he made it clear with her he's not available. But still text her all the time.
-He flirts with girls on social media. I told him I'm fine with it as long as he doesn't cross a line. (I mean, to me, him flirting with a girl on twitter who lives states away is not a problem to me) but he did cross a line when they started texting and flirting.
-He will invite me to spend the night at his house for us to cuddle and watch TV and make love, but then he will start playing video games and I will end up falling asleep while he's on his xbox.
-He will forget about our dates. Sometimes I planned something for let's say, monday night. And in the day I'll text him with a "Can't wait for tonight!" and he'll reply with "Oh shit I forgot! I can't, I have to go to Mike's I promise I'd help him with his bike"
And so we will fight and argue. Because once or twice is ok, but when it's often it's too much.
I just don't know what to do. I don't wanna break up with him. I tried talking to him, he understands but he will keep doing those things anyways.
Are those things normal in a relationship?
With that said, lately, my man and I have been fighting a lot mostly because of disappointments.
Few examples:
-He will invite me over his place to hangout and spend time with him and do something he knows I like. Then, after 30 minutes he will find what we do boring and will wanna do something else something he's into and I'm not. We will fight, because I drove an hour to go to his house and he lets me down. Usually he realizes he's in the wrong and will say he's sorry and we will go back to what we were doing first. But each time, we argue and fight.
-He will plan things with me. Like dinner or a movie, and in the day text me to tell me plans won't work because he will hangout with someone else.
-There's a girl he works with. She's into him. And he made it clear with her he's not available. But still text her all the time.
-He flirts with girls on social media. I told him I'm fine with it as long as he doesn't cross a line. (I mean, to me, him flirting with a girl on twitter who lives states away is not a problem to me) but he did cross a line when they started texting and flirting.
-He will invite me to spend the night at his house for us to cuddle and watch TV and make love, but then he will start playing video games and I will end up falling asleep while he's on his xbox.
-He will forget about our dates. Sometimes I planned something for let's say, monday night. And in the day I'll text him with a "Can't wait for tonight!" and he'll reply with "Oh shit I forgot! I can't, I have to go to Mike's I promise I'd help him with his bike"
And so we will fight and argue. Because once or twice is ok, but when it's often it's too much.
I just don't know what to do. I don't wanna break up with him. I tried talking to him, he understands but he will keep doing those things anyways.
Are those things normal in a relationship?
Oh he totally is. I have seen it in action. He barely does ANYTHING and they just drool over him. He doesn't know that most of our mutual friends are in love with him. I never oggled over him, because looks mean very little to me. He always came after me. I guess I am like the only girl that didn't do that thus making me stand out.
Idk what his venus/etc are..and I don't wanna know. He's just incredibly handsome and kind. So what woman wouldn't be into that?
Idk what his venus/etc are..and I don't wanna know. He's just incredibly handsome and kind. So what woman wouldn't be into that?
Posted by WaterCupPosted by aquarius09
I second what WC said. Enjoy this site of the scale because the other side will be veryyy infuriating. Since you're a scorp, I think you'll be fine.
LOL, why you say as a scorp she'll be fine? Scorps love to be sure about stuff, they don't like confusion.click to expand
Because you guys bounce back after beating up the libra. Lol
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by anonymousheart
AHAHAHHA. This is why I was keeping our relationship PRIVATE, bc for some reason when you put it out there all the triflin girls come forward. Seriously two seconds later I see some random from PR writing on his wall "hey cutie" hahaha...weaksauce. Can't wait to see how he tries to skimmy out of that response while still being the nice guy. This should be interesting...
so funny. What sun/moon venus/mars is your man again?
your man sounds like a lady killer, magnetizes everyone and every woman who is single, comes running.
anyway, it's ironic you say that....i'm just learning this myself.click to expand
actually, that girl is "in a relationship" so she's just a hoebag!
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I chuckle thinking how many hearts the picture posted of us kissing will break....
Posted by maz777Posted by aquarius09Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by soultalkPosted by maz777Posted by soultalkPosted by maz777
I don't mean to sound paranoid or vain, but I feel like Libras are prone to collecting stalkers and I am not sure if we are to blame ourselves for it. The creepiest type is the one you know will most likely kill you (or try) if you sleep with them in hopes she/he will leave you alone. The one that I dislike the most is the one that spreads rumors in hopes that no one else will date you, which is just a stupid tatic to expect to work against a Libra. If anyone knows what I am talking about please give me some insight.
^^ you sound creepy there IMO. lol
I was stating a fact. Anyone else on here would know that is true, although the logic of sleeping with one is misguided.
That is the part that I was calling creepy
This. What kind of dipshit asshole are you that you think that sleeping with someone will get them to leave you alone?? Fuck, no wonder you have an issue with stalkers. Quit being stupid and maybe you wouldn't have to worry about them?
If this is how you happen to handle things, you're one of those dickheads that pegs the girl for being "crazy," "stalker," or "obsessed" when you turn around and feed them behaviors that lead to these impressions.
"LOL THIS BITCH IS OBSESSED WITH ME!!" (what he isn't telling you is that he treats her like a girlfriend but won't settle down and claims she's crazy when she's been led on emotionally by a selfish twat).
"Oh no, she's stalking me. She won't take no for an answer." (what he isn't telling you is that he sleeps with her, hoping it will MAKE HER GO AWAY.)
Smh. People are insane.
^THIS!!! Exactly my sentiments on libra unevolved douches
That's not fair; everyone is unevolved compared to you. We are human too you know...just putting that out there. Also, Libra are among the higclick to expand
You sleep with people in hopes of getting rid of her!!! That really immature and unevolved! I don't think everyone is unevolved, just men who do that. Lol. Highest influential in what? Driving women to a psychiatric ward? Lol. Nothing to love about that. I do however love you guys as friends.
.you're gonna cause a ruckus.
Posted by anonymousheartPosted by lisabethur8Posted by anonymousheart
AHAHAHHA. This is why I was keeping our relationship PRIVATE, bc for some reason when you put it out there all the triflin girls come forward. Seriously two seconds later I see some random from PR writing on his wall "hey cutie" hahaha...weaksauce. Can't wait to see how he tries to skimmy out of that response while still being the nice guy. This should be interesting...
so funny. What sun/moon venus/mars is your man again?
your man sounds like a lady killer, magnetizes everyone and every woman who is single, comes running.
anyway, it's ironic you say that....i'm just learning this myself.
actually, that girl is "in a relationship" so she's just a hoebag!click to expand
Lol i just saw that looking back. *g*