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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
Here's a scenario:
A man really likes a woman, and so he finds out where she goes grocery shopping and when, then he goes there to look at her ... this man works next door to her, that's where he saw her ... she takes walks during lunch break for exercise, now man takes walks to be near her, to watch her.
Woman likes man: she is overjoyed and estatic that he wants to be near her, and look at her
Woman doesn't like man: she hides in office and tells everyone she knows that she's being stalked.
The reality is that his actions remain the same, while her reality is dependent upon how she feels.
If you decided you didn't like him anymore .. then his memorizing and paying attention to you, would piss you off ... while his actions never changed ~ the change was your feelings.
Perspective is reality
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May 25, 2012Comments: 122 · Posts: 5590 · Topics: 41
I see. Sending her something everyday this week is a good idea. I think the key is to be creative. We(Sags) like that. Is there any place around town or is inexpensive that she's been dying to go to?
OMG! I have my 18th birthday on December 13th as well!!
I like all kinds of presents really. Flowers are excellent in my opinion.
The cupcakes are also nice, but why don't you try to bake something by yourself. This is more personal and shows your devotion. When I love somebody I feel the need to cook for them (:
Another good idea is a wonderful day spent together. If you have any amusement parks nearby that would be an awesome gift! Even a little day trip somewhere would make her happy. Sags love to travel.
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May 18, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 6936 · Topics: 267
Makes sense to some degree.
I dated a Cancer guy for about 8 months. We broke up today. For the past month or two, he has been acting really crabby, negatively and it broke my heart to see him like this. I blamed myself for not being perfect enough. When we talked about the problem he told me that lately he's been unhappy because he has some problems. He didn't want to tell me what problems exactly, I only know that some of them are related to his family. That's very usual for his manly behavior. Anyway, we decided to be continue our relationship albeit crappy. That was really stressful for me and for him I think. After a week of crabbiness we separated as friends.
I feel kind of relieved because all of this uncertainty is over.
I know that he still likes me because he said it today and in my opinion the only problem is his own state of mind. Is it possible that he still wants me back after he deals with his problems?
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