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::: shakes head :::
You should chase men. Pour your heart out to him, bombard him with everything you got, and never let up ...
... afterall, it's about him and what he wants. You don't matter.
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Oct 14, 2012Comments: 3 · Posts: 186 · Topics: 10
3 months from distant relatives and best friends .After a year abroad, I feel like something has changed in me so I have to figure that out. Can't stop thinking about last year.
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Oct 19, 2013Comments: 0 · Posts: 192 · Topics: 16
I met a new guy a month ago. Pisces.
Lovely dates, chemistry, kissing, he contacted me constantly. I mean texting and emailing and messaging me several times a day. he flirted with me, told me he really liked me. If felt right to kiss me etc. he added me on Facebook.
I never had to prompt him to contact me. the only thing was he was worried about the distance between us. not that far bit you could drop by easily.
He pulled it out of nowhere that he no longer felt right and that he was not hugely fussed about travelling to see me.
But he really likes me. Loves being in contact with me. doesn't want to lose me. can we be friends he says. stay in touch and reassess in a month...but realistically he thinks friends as we get on so well.
I specifically told him on first date I didn't want someone with issues and someone who was just out of a relationship. He agreed.
He said he hasn't over the last couple of weeks felt a burning desire to.cancel everything to come to see me so he was no longer feeling it. He still likes me but thinks realistically it will just be friends. He doesn't want to lose a good friendship (after 2 meetings?!) So wants to stay I'm touch and see how it goes in a month or so.
He was dumped horribly by his on / off gf in July. He thought he was ok but isn't ok. He is scared to get involved. Cannot explain why his feelings changed. He said he thought he was ok to start dating but he want. he is scared to be hurt again. Doesn't know why it happened. he's had some.changes at work and he's.not happy where he is.
He was in touch with me daily until this. he initiated all of the contact. Doesn't want to lose me as a friend....and happy to keep meeting. We get on like a house on fire and have similar humour. Said to reassess in a month.
My thoughts are to disappear and let him come to me.
Ideas on how to handle him / the situation. Why on earth does he want to cling onto friendship when we aren't even friends now.
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