Is it hard for you to show excitement?
Posted by truecapPosted by geminitwin
Dear Caps, I am glad to see you tackle this topic. However, from my experience, that will probably make u unhappy, but its okay. I have seen the under excitement with my Cap guy. I bought him something from the brand that he likes and he just opened the gift and said I like it. It was very dry. Not that I wanted him to scream and shout NO, just say thank you, smile, make eye contact and say you appreciate the gift and thought. Don't act but realize that someone, who hopefully cares for you, took the time to get you something to your taste. In my case I wrapped the gift. Understand Caps, displaying gratitude DOES NOT make you fake and unkempt, it shows that you can acknowledge gratitude. Social graces has its place. It does not make you a sucker.
Thank you for putting that out there. It kind of goes along with what I was saying when I was told "I thought you'd show more excitement). Now I'm aware and I do say thank you and tell them how much it means to me, but I don't know if I always did in the
past.
I do make an effort later on to let them know I like it/use it/wear it, etc.
Even excitement at a casino is hard to display - and that involves winning money!!!
Like Capgirl said, only those that really know me can see how excited I am, even then.click to expand
This is good. You acknowledge and are aware an most importantly you make an effort. Not too hard of a task once its practiced it. None of us has all the answers. Gratitude and humility opens doors for others to want to present their best to you. Not that you want that but as I told my Cap, a little honey goes a long way.
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What you should say depends on how you feel.
The best sex of my life was also the smallest penis of my life. I dont know if he felt like he had to go all out but it was absolutely perfect.
How much time do we spend doing that anyway? A couple hours a week at most?
try a couple hours a day. Its like God played a trick on him.
P-Angel you dont seem to comphrehend the female at all.
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What are you really trying to say here ?
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When mothers were in the home, they actually taught their daughters how to be a woman ... now, these girls have to watch ones like Miley Cyrus to learn how to act.
And then of course, whatever the boys tell them girls are suppose to be like .....
::: shakes head :::
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