Please help me! i really need advice
oh thats too bad. What is she not doing?? I treat my man like there is no other. i adore him. i show him and tell him daily how lucky i am to have him. i mean it!! that is why im so upset about him not speaking to me... 2 years later and I still get butterflies when he comes home.
Leave Your Feedback
We'd love to hear your thoughts! If you're not logged in, you can still share your feedback below. Your input helps us improve the experience for everyone. To post your own content or join the conversation, please log in or create an account.
Related Messages
Posted by capgirl69Posted by truecapPosted by capgirl69Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Its not my daugher, but I would definitely prefer my kid to be Sag than Cap, I want a happy child, cappies can be very depressive when young.
Either way, congrats, good luck and all the best to your daughter/family
I was never depressed as a child. I just acted old. My (Cancer) mom used to call me "little old lady".i was quiet, too reserved, afraid of everything.
But I was good as gold, a good student, never caused any grief to my parents.
And I used to save everything!
Like if we were given candy, for example, I'd eat one piece and put the rest away, and save it for later.
My Leo sister would eat all hers at once and then beg me for mine. Lol.
Sounds like another page out of my life!! Except for the Leo sister!
Do you have siblings?click to expand
No, I'm an only child, but the other way you described yourself as a child was just like how I was.
I knew MissFisk was one, that lil' hottie!
A truely glorious time of the year indeed : ) champagne and liquor is stocked and prepared. We'll be popping bottles up in here in no time.
*Waves at aquasnoz*
I know this guy for a little over 3 years now. We work together in the same company and in the same department. He is a very quiet person and extremely gentle and nice. It took a while before we even started to talk to each other. At the beginning we only greet each other. Over time, I noticed he was extra gentle with me??_ whenever we hang out after work, he always offer me a ride home, whenever I??m sick he always pays extra attention and offer his help for all sort of things. We had a conversation and I told him that I??m not looking for a relationship and that him and I are coworkers so I don??t want things to get complicated. Things seem to be ok or so I thought??_. Until months later, he suddenly asked me if I wanted to hang out on weekend. I told him that we??ve already talked about this and that I??m not comfortable with that. The next Monday, things we??re very awkward between us. We did greet each other but I noticed how cold he suddenly became. I sent him a text message at the end of the day asking him if he??s available for a little talk. After work, we met and had a nice talk. I told him that he??s a very nice guy and everyone seem to like him that includes me, but that things between us will never work out as I already have someone in my life. I also ask him if there??s anything I could do to help the situation. He told me he is well aware of how complicated things are. He also told me he??s sorry, but he just hasn??t found a solution yet. He told me he??s not trying to ignore me or anything, but by being distant with me that makes it a lot easier for him to move on and he asked me to also distant myself to help him out. So starting the next day, we went back to a single greeting in the morning if we cross each other. Months later (today) I??ve realize I??ve made the biggest mistake EVER. A close friend of mine made me realize what I did. To be honest, since the first day I knew he had a crush on me, I started to dress nicer, and I actually went out of my way to make him notice me??_he??s sitting right next to me at work so I sometime started to sing and dance and I knew all too well that it caught his attention. Lately, he has turn completely cold??_ I mean he??s still very nice and gentle, but that warmth is not there anymore. Whenever we talk, he always cut it short and then run away. I??m single once again and I can sometime catch a glimpse of leftover affection from him and that bothers me even more. A few weeks ago, I
Lol @ true cap. Because I said so. Were you quite the unruly child? I was always the poster child of obedience. Never questioning the authority of my parents : ).
A few weeks ago, I texted him asking if we could talk once again. We went out for dinner that afternoon and I told him that I miss the old him??_the one that took extra care of me, the one that was extra gentle with me. He replied that he doesn??t understand, he thought that was the point. I asked him if we could go back the way it was before and see how things are going??_ then he replied that he??s sorry, but he finally manage to be at a place where he??s comfortable, that he had to give it everything he??s got to get over me not once but twice. He asked me where was that coming from especially since I already have someone in my life. After dinner he gave me a ride home of course and as I move in to give me a goodbye kiss as usual??_ he quickly move away and said ???please??. Never in my entire life have I felt so bad. We wish each other a good evening and he quickly drive away (He usually wait for me to get inside the house before driving away). Since then, he has gotten even more cold??_our morning greetings pretty much stop at him giving me a nod??_ then not a single word beside that??_I sometime get a smile out of him if we cross each other in the hallway??_What have I done and did I lost him? Are there any way to get him back?
@TrueCap- you and I always/ seem to be very similar people. 
Maybe a lot of it could be birth order too, I'm the oldest, you were an only child.
My son is an only also and he is pretty similar to how I was as a kid, though he is not shy at all. He can talk to anyone about anything.
Maybe a lot of it could be birth order too, I'm the oldest, you were an only child.
My son is an only also and he is pretty similar to how I was as a kid, though he is not shy at all. He can talk to anyone about anything.
Posted by cornfuzzled4ever
... she is stupid for even asking a question ...
She's not stupid for asking a question ... she's stupid for asking THAT question.
Posted by cornfuzzled4ever
.... at least we gave her the confidence to face the guy and get HER problem resolved.
Now that is funny.
Let me guess ... you think she was looking for a solution.
You really have no clue that women are looking for affirmation, not a solution ... do you?
lol
Posted by cornfuzzled4ever
..... you catch more flies with honey than vinegar.
click to expand
I'll clue you in on a little secret ... I'm not trying to catch flies. In fact, I'm not trying anything.
I'm accomplishing my goal, not trying .. which is to slap that fly for being an idiot, in spite of herself.
You go ahead and stick your chest out believing that she is all better now, believing she can rest easy now that she knows for certain she was one of his pieces of ass.
Oh, yeah .. now that she knows that for sure .... every thing peachy.
rflmao
What the hell, I posted that we are opposites, so we're the same but different.