Taurus - Pisces, better off friends than lovers?
Okay, DXP changed that word in the post. The madonna / w h o r e complex
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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/17/joaquin-phoenix-rap-hoax-im-still-here-helped-career-acting-the-master_n_1889721.html
"Joaquin Phoenix was ready to abandon acting for a hip-hop career and capture the journey in the documentary "I'm Still Here." Eventually, the Casey Affleck-directed film was revealed to be a mockumentary, but Phoenix said the rap hoax helped liberate his entire career.
"Part of why I was frustrated with acting was because I took it so seriously," Phoenix told TIME magazine when discussing what he took away from the rap hoax experience.
"I want it to be so good that I get in my own way. It??s like love: when you fall in love, you??re not yourself anymore. You lose control of being natural and showing the beautiful parts of yourself, and all somebody recognizes is this total desperation. And that??s very unattractive. Once I became a total buffoon, it was so liberating."
Although Phoenix "quit" acting in 2008..the actor is back with "The Master," and many are arguing that it's the performance of his career.
basically even if you express yourself and look stupid, nobody else cares about that as much as you and for perfectionists its a a liberating freeing thing and adds much needed perspective
"Joaquin Phoenix was ready to abandon acting for a hip-hop career and capture the journey in the documentary "I'm Still Here." Eventually, the Casey Affleck-directed film was revealed to be a mockumentary, but Phoenix said the rap hoax helped liberate his entire career.
"Part of why I was frustrated with acting was because I took it so seriously," Phoenix told TIME magazine when discussing what he took away from the rap hoax experience.
"I want it to be so good that I get in my own way. It??s like love: when you fall in love, you??re not yourself anymore. You lose control of being natural and showing the beautiful parts of yourself, and all somebody recognizes is this total desperation. And that??s very unattractive. Once I became a total buffoon, it was so liberating."
Although Phoenix "quit" acting in 2008..the actor is back with "The Master," and many are arguing that it's the performance of his career.
basically even if you express yourself and look stupid, nobody else cares about that as much as you and for perfectionists its a a liberating freeing thing and adds much needed perspective
Posted by LadyOfRebirthPosted by justagirlPosted by LadyOfRebirthPosted by LucciferiPosted by LadyOfRebirthPosted by LucciferiPosted by LadyOfRebirth
Who cares though
Maybe I do. Maybe.
If it upsets you then maybe you could, idk, ignore it?
I said maybe.
And I didn't say you did
I will admit, it bugs me and yes I have been staying out of those threads. Because I do jump in with my strong blunt opinions. Sometimes you want to grab them, shake them and say "wake the fuck up". yup staying out of those threads is best for me.
I don't really have this with relationship threads but with more general threads. It's hard for me to pull away sometimes when I believe something and someone doesn't agree with it (even though everyone is entitled to their own opinion). I just get passionate about the things I truly believe in.click to expand
That's such an Aqua type stance, you must be influenced by it someplace... maybe?
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by beautifulsoul74Posted by scorchedearth
i don't dislike you BS. i just think you're entirely too impressed with yourself.
and the truth about you is that you're a predator. don't think people don't know what goes on behind the scenes here.
If that was the case, I'd be fully abandoned by now and nobody would talk to me at all. Like I said, personal stuff. So please spare me with the made up crap. You're going to have to come up with something better to use. What really sad is, you're sitting here trying to bully or whatever you're doing to someone whom you're never met or interacted with...on an Internet site. An Internet site. It ain't that crucial.
i didn't make shit up. i can pm you with examples if you'd like.
i don't know if the ones involved want their business on the board itself.click to expand
Go right ahead. I'll entertain it
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Posted by aftershine
@TLS: doesnt the taurus side of you crave the feels? The magnetism? So the more magnetic/passionate the love is......the faster you run?
"feels"? Is that what you youngins' are calling it now? I must be getting really old. You know what's funny? As I was typing that, I put on an album by a producer I like, and the song playing is called "the feels". That is insane...
Anyway...Its not that I run faster with escalating magnetism/passion. In fact, any viable relationship starts off with that, and a little bit of obsession. Anthropologists who study love actually say that for people who say they have "fallen in love", the "obsessive" phase where all you think about is the person 24/7 is almost a universal across cultures. See the work of Helen Fisher for instance. So there's always that spark.
There is a threshold though. Sometimes though too much of that passion is not a good thing - like when it is too intense or won't go away. Like when you feel out of control, and not your self; it brings out a more possessive/jealous side than usual, etc. Almost everyone has been in a passionate relationship like that. They usually don't last long-term, aren't good for raising a family, etc. Just my opinion.
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Not all Taurus/Scorpio have this magnetic pull. But I have talked to SO many that do, and have definitely lived through it. I can confirm that it is exactly as you say - there is almost no self control when you're in each others' presence. It actually feels like it really is a physical force drawing your eyes and bodies towards one another. You'll really have to stop putting your self in his presence completely if you decide he's not giving you what you want. By being around him, he is almost always going to get what he wants in the short-term.
To be as jealous as he is? He is feeling it I'm sure. But he may be just too immature and reckless at this stage of life to really be in a place to give you what you want. My bet is he's holding back some fears/insecurities that he thinks make him someone you would ultimately dump. I suggest, at this point, not to withdraw, but to try to really level with each other, and have straight/honest/vulnerable convo about what you both are feeling, and what you both want. Agree to communicate like that up front, and then lay everything out. When he sees you being that real, he'll tell you what's on his mind/heart and you'll be able to determine if you can work with that.
To be as jealous as he is? He is feeling it I'm sure. But he may be just too immature and reckless at this stage of life to really be in a place to give you what you want. My bet is he's holding back some fears/insecurities that he thinks make him someone you would ultimately dump. I suggest, at this point, not to withdraw, but to try to really level with each other, and have straight/honest/vulnerable convo about what you both are feeling, and what you both want. Agree to communicate like that up front, and then lay everything out. When he sees you being that real, he'll tell you what's on his mind/heart and you'll be able to determine if you can work with that.