why your user name on dxp is the one you have now?
It's the name of Flannery O'Connors farm. And she raised peacocks there, hence the avatar.
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Oh hey! It worked. Lol
This situation has made me so strong. I melted a little for him and Im ok with that. It has made me better.
LOL.. it may be years from now but ill hear where he ends up.
It just occured to me that my only celebrity crush when I was little was a Leo Man. I was so shocked by all the other girls who loved famous football players..and I had no one to crush on.
Enter Roger Federer. His game seemed flawless..a Virgo's wet dream. Then I subscribed to his page and found out he also plays he piano..could he get any more perfect? And then I found about Mirka and my dreams = shattered.
such a nice couple, together for 14 years.
In a completely unrelated note, Matthew Perry and Edward Norton, if you're reading DXP, will you marry me? But you need to divorce your current wife first Edward, as I am the queen of double standards.
Enter Roger Federer. His game seemed flawless..a Virgo's wet dream. Then I subscribed to his page and found out he also plays he piano..could he get any more perfect? And then I found about Mirka and my dreams = shattered.
such a nice couple, together for 14 years.
In a completely unrelated note, Matthew Perry and Edward Norton, if you're reading DXP, will you marry me? But you need to divorce your current wife first Edward, as I am the queen of double standards.
If the answers to these questions are NO then it may be best for you to move on:
1. Are you likely to get back together any time soon?
2. Can you emotionally afford to continue giving your emotions & body to him knowing that you might get wrapped up in him again, thus resulting in further hurt when he rejects you or moves onto someone else?
3. Does your inner gut, soul & intuition truly believe that sex with you is just some magical force vs. him being the typical guy who of course still likes sleeping with their ex?
4. If you found out he was sleeping with someone else/new AND/OR decided to start a new romantic situation with someone else, would you be happy for him & it not bother you?
You know yourself better than anyone. If your goal is to get AWAY from the situation for your emotional/mental sanity then it doesn't make logical OR emotional sense to keep giving/doing things that often bring 2 people CLOSER to 1 another.
Having feelings doesn't mean that you suddenly lose your ability to make smart decisions or turn down sex. Feelings make it harder, yes, but not impossible. Don't automatically assume that since the feelings haven't disappeared yet that it must mean he's still entitled to your mind, body, time & energy
He is no longer the person you're in a relationship with. Yes, I get that some people get back together & KNOW they're gonna get back together, thus the reason they never stop acting like boyfriend & girlfriend.
But the way you described this story sounds like this guy has called it quits for good. And if that's the case, then you should probably continue to pull back, not closer. For some reason, women tend to get way more emotionally invested in sex than men do. And when a guy is saying/doing all of the right things, it's easy for forget that those things are no substitute for commitment IF that's what you truly want/expect in return.
If your heart can't afford for you to find out later that you just gave up all your goods for nothing in the event that he never wants to be with you again OR moves onto someone else, then it will make more sense for you to cut ties completely moreso than not.
1. Are you likely to get back together any time soon?
2. Can you emotionally afford to continue giving your emotions & body to him knowing that you might get wrapped up in him again, thus resulting in further hurt when he rejects you or moves onto someone else?
3. Does your inner gut, soul & intuition truly believe that sex with you is just some magical force vs. him being the typical guy who of course still likes sleeping with their ex?
4. If you found out he was sleeping with someone else/new AND/OR decided to start a new romantic situation with someone else, would you be happy for him & it not bother you?
You know yourself better than anyone. If your goal is to get AWAY from the situation for your emotional/mental sanity then it doesn't make logical OR emotional sense to keep giving/doing things that often bring 2 people CLOSER to 1 another.
Having feelings doesn't mean that you suddenly lose your ability to make smart decisions or turn down sex. Feelings make it harder, yes, but not impossible. Don't automatically assume that since the feelings haven't disappeared yet that it must mean he's still entitled to your mind, body, time & energy
He is no longer the person you're in a relationship with. Yes, I get that some people get back together & KNOW they're gonna get back together, thus the reason they never stop acting like boyfriend & girlfriend.
But the way you described this story sounds like this guy has called it quits for good. And if that's the case, then you should probably continue to pull back, not closer. For some reason, women tend to get way more emotionally invested in sex than men do. And when a guy is saying/doing all of the right things, it's easy for forget that those things are no substitute for commitment IF that's what you truly want/expect in return.
If your heart can't afford for you to find out later that you just gave up all your goods for nothing in the event that he never wants to be with you again OR moves onto someone else, then it will make more sense for you to cut ties completely moreso than not.
Virgo going to the bathroom to snort another line of cocaine.
For increased efficiency, you know.
For increased efficiency, you know.
Posted by xcake
You obviously have serious self-control issues. You'd better get some professional help, or you'll eventually do this to a guy who will beat the hell out of you or turn you in to the police.
^^^
That's not a real concern. At all.
shatt up
Posted by StillWaterPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by StillWaterPosted by Bsmurray
And you've never seen him face to face?
Bullshit, he doesn't care about you.
Ps. I'm aqua with Virgo moon
Nope. Not even a picture. -_-
That's a long time to go without having a clue what someone looks like. Don't you want to know? doesn't he?
Exactly my point. Exactly why I stopped talking to him.click to expand
You did the right thing. Time to be adults and quit playing games that were played in high school.
Like I said, I have the same sun and moon as him. He would have manned up and met you face to face if he truly wants to take things to the next level. Sounds like he's just playing games.
Reminds me of that MTV show, Catfished.
So this thread turned from the chick beating the guy to EVERYONE beating a dead horse 
omg yes!