Posted by Damnata
So you ignored all the Pisces Men who advised you to call him or go see him. That would've settled the "Was this guy seriously ill" point once and for all.
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Posted by UndinePosted by CreepyPantsPosted by atearthPosted by Lib911
^ that and may be afraid to lose the comfort/security. I have seen some women leaving their passionless marriage/relationship only when they felt a sense of security with some other guy
Being in a passionless marriage/relationship until something better comes along is just so wrong.
An analogy of this would be being in a job with long hours, low pay while looking for a better job.
But it's not really like a job,
those scenarios are similar but not comparable on principle, imo. staying with a crap job while looking for a better one is wise and gives you more confidence while on the hunt than if you were unemployed. staying in a shit relationship while looking for a better one is weak, immoral and unfair to all involved.
re. the op??_ no idea. i couldn't fathom tolerating a relationship like this at any age. i've seen relationships like it and have always felt it was because of "comfort" so to speak??_ fear of change, and definitely afraid of initiating change. some people are just *that* stuck for no better reason than a lack of will to break free.
Shitty or comfortable?
If the change comes in the shape of an emotionally unavailable man with two pre-tween kids from the first wife, a toddler and a pregnant ex, I would say....nah, I'd rather be complacent...when it comes to men in their late thirties.click to expand
Posted by truecap
Yes, relationships are work. But, see, what happens in an earth person's brain, is we are constantly observing and weighing the relationship and all angles of it. If we come to the conclusion that the relationship is not good for us or not going to work, or if we decide you're not "the one", that's all there is to it.
I know earth communication of it sucks because the other person thinks it just came out of the blue, when in fact it really didn't. We'd have been contemplating it for a while unbeknowest to the other person. It's not fair, but why say something when we just might decide that person's worth fighting for. Why mess it up it if it is going to end well?
Earth signs are constantly thinking and analyzing the situation. We can't help it, it's just our method of operation.
There are signs of it going south - an earth sign will distant themselves, not respond to texts/calls as fast, put other things of importance over the person, be less affectionate and more business like, not get as involved in conversations and not share so much of ourselves anymore. Those are the warning signs, but many people don't realize to watch out for them.
Posted by MilkySoftPosted by Andalusia
Scorpio, talking to its mate
LOLclick to expand
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