Cancer Man - Stranger by the Moment

Signed Up: Nov 21, 2013
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It does because you've pegged a past partner of his as hideous because she's slept with a lot of men, you're questioning his truthfulness with you and you stated your big worry is about his past sex life with a woman who has had ALOT (your words) of partners and the implication of a possible STD to get passed along. If you are really worried about the STD part then ask to see a test result from a Dr. stating he's disease free and you show him your own test results. No sex until he can prove himself. Everything else is moot and seems like a lot of drama. If you don't trust him then don't pursue and find someone who's a better match.

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She's a virgo soultalk. On even days
She's Bilbo on odd days.

i don't know Bilbo's story, haven't seen the movie. but ok will find out

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I find cardinal signs extremely bossy and controlling. Well specifically Cancers and Capricorns. Libras not so much. As a mutable, that doesn't sit so well with me because I don't like it when people try to tell me what to think, or what to do. Forces me to pull away.
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