Had lunch with my cancer ex
He is insecure.
Men act weird around a woman we want when they are insecure.
A man who is confident in himself makes jokes about stupid and bad shit.
For example, when you broke up with him on the text message, a grown-up thing would have been to first joke and then act dignified like this:
Girl: "I'm breaking up with you, I am sorry."
Guy: "Nooooo!!! My heart is crushed forever nowww!!!"
Guy (quickly): "JK. You are a sweet girl, and it was fun. All the best."
His "ok" response could have been sulky or down.
Making a joke out of it and being a grown up tends to be more attractive, does it not?
Men act weird around a woman we want when they are insecure.
A man who is confident in himself makes jokes about stupid and bad shit.
For example, when you broke up with him on the text message, a grown-up thing would have been to first joke and then act dignified like this:
Girl: "I'm breaking up with you, I am sorry."
Guy: "Nooooo!!! My heart is crushed forever nowww!!!"
Guy (quickly): "JK. You are a sweet girl, and it was fun. All the best."
His "ok" response could have been sulky or down.
Making a joke out of it and being a grown up tends to be more attractive, does it not?
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What do you mean "IT" doesn't give a fleck? About WHAT, CluelessCancer?
Scorp board. Also, bring a box of chocolates with ya!
Let's roll!
CluelessCancer, you're invited too. If you want, you can stand in the corner with other loner Scorps, observing.
Let's roll!
CluelessCancer, you're invited too. If you want, you can stand in the corner with other loner Scorps, observing.
Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Hmm I don't take compliments well...
I used to be you.click to expand
Woah! NotYourAverageAquarius got a sex change, a race change and a sign change to boot.
He must a closet Gemini!
You know... one of those kinds of people.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Why do you people copy my SWAG? I Troll. I troll hard.
Fine, don't come over. I can take rejection gracefully. Whatever.
Also, why did you delete that thread on Scorp board? Trolls who troll hard tend to start and abandon their inflammatory threads.
And, why didn't you answer my other questions?
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Posted by notyourtypePosted by DamnataPosted by theleoman
40 calls later and 40 text
So.much.precision
*eyeroll*
Ali Baba and the 40 thieves
My thoughts, exactly. His post just reeks of BS to me.click to expand
Yep. He's seriously counting this shit?
It's totally stroking his ego.
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Moon Taurus 25??20'20
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Posted by nats
From my experience with cappies, if they want to remain friends, they obviously saw something in you they liked and reasons as to why they would like to remain friends.
Cappies are quick to drop people who they have no regard for or respect. I've seen it first hand with my gf and friends that have come and gone.
The fact that she wants to remain friends I think you have a window of opportunity but you MUST play it right. Just like a Taurus they are cautious as sh*t and can smell a phony a mile away. Play your cards right if you would like to keep a cappy.
thank you so much for your feedback
I can totally relate to you since you are an air sign as well! as an aquarius similar to gemini i do tend to go with the flow when it comes to planning..i need to work on that more and not come off as flakey..we are talking still but i am not initiating any conversation with her..if she wants to talk to me still then i will answer her of course..i still think there is a chance with her but i will def. watch my actions more and be aware of what i say so i don't upset her again
It means something & nothing, depending on the day. I have a love-hate relationship with love. Love means die for me & love means kill for me 
I love the thought of having someone that'll absolutely do anything for me. And I mean ANYTHING. Too bad many are cowards or maybe they just don't love me enough *sobs*
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I love the thought of having someone that'll absolutely do anything for me. And I mean ANYTHING. Too bad many are cowards or maybe they just don't love me enough *sobs*Moon in scorpio conj pluto, mars & saturn
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I am not actually getting a kick out of this someone in this thread asked me how many calls and text. Its actually a serious matter and it shouldn't be turned around on me. I am actually trying to get out of a situation . if someone says stop you should stop its not enjoyable.