When Guys

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Sag89

Posted by beautifulsoul74
No offense but I get a chuckle out of the premise that a guy is being lazy. Hell, what do you define as "pursuit?" Isn't it obvious that he's pursuing you when he offers his number? I mean, isn't it lazy to then say he had to ask for yours. Him giving you his number says nothing and boils down to simple over analysis. It doesn't say anaything really. There are plenty of players, assholes, etc that ask for your number. Simply put, it says nothing...expectations say everything. The same stsndard can be applied. If he's lazy etc then it can be said that you are. Sadly, it stuff like this that keeps men and women from having a good relationship or even starting one.
What if the two people involved had a really great conversation beforehand? So you discount him because he gave you his number? Honestly, who gives their or asks for a number shouldn't matter or even be a big deal. Its a freakin number exchange not marriage! Smh

Yea, it was different but I didn't want to automatically assume anything. Shit, he may of just wanted to chill and nothing more. We played pool the whole night and hung out w our buddies.
You never really know peoples intentions till you make the text or call I think.
Sort of stuck-up to assume people are automatically into you. I will either ask or make a move to see whats up.

That's funny, I've heard many women say this when previously I'd assumed it was something more negative.
Innocuous miscommunication on both sides, I guess.
I personally think the only thing that's lazy is giving people a facebook or something non-personal. I like the whole scenario of playing pool for a whole night when we've just met. But I like dreamy soulmate type stuff like that!

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