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Nov 14, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 4517 · Topics: 108
Meh, that book was a bit over simplified.
Very cute, still though, entertaining. Gotta love "pop psychology"
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Jun 20, 2011Comments: 5 · Posts: 4737 · Topics: 103
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
No, she didn't ....... the threads say that the community closed them down.
And that is so bizarre, considering the horrid threads that the community allows to remain open.
why these?
It's like something has happened lately ..... did an old user come back with multiple names, who is carrying vengeance?
idk
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Jan 25, 2012Comments: 8 · Posts: 20090 · Topics: 685
Reading back through this thread, I realize how hindsight really is 20/20. All the signs were there. You sensed he was hiding something and he was - he was seeing someone else. Thus the reason his weekends were busy, the reason he didn't want to go out in public, the reason he didn't introduce you to friends and family.
Now, he is single. NOW, he wants to go out and bring you around family.
Just beware!!! I don't want to hurt your feelings, but beware that you were 2nd choice to whomever this other girl was. Now she's out of the picture, he seems like he wants to make you a priority. Just be cautious. If he happens to meet someone else, would he make you 2nd choice again or will you remain 1st choice? Something to watch for and wait and see about.
Doesn't mean that is going to happen, but it is something to watch for.
Keep to your guns on the no sex for a while so you can really be objective and can determine whether it's you he wants or just the convenience of sex.
You're well equipped with information now to know what kind of man you're dealing with. You should be able to stick to your boundaries and know what to do.
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Dec 07, 2011Comments: 33 · Posts: 13769 · Topics: 154
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to CC:
You yearn for love and class,
Is it a farce or is your heart made of glass?
Your broken pieces you use as weaponry
Unknown to you, your smile is your best artillery
You won me over one day on tiny chat
???Yo this girl is mighty phat!??
I thank you for your friendship
And I hope we never trip
I am not witty nor am I particularly smart
Just wanted to show you, you have my heart
Thank you so much. Yes, as much as it was not what I wanted to happen, I know if it wasn't meant to be then it would never have worked. I also know that I got more out of him in his email than I ever would have sitting and talking or even on the phone, because emotions would have gotten in the way. He has always been and will always be a very honest man with everything he says and was very very sweet about me and our relationship.
It is still hard, I will miss him for a very long time. I returned things to him (his truck) this morning as well as picking things up out of the truck that he had of mine, has been a tough morning, but that is the end, that is until we run into each other since we only live 5 minutes apart and 2 of his kids are friends with my daughter...it will all be good!
Thanks again!