How do you fall out of love with someone..
I've decided not to forget, but to fall out of love.
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Posted by Damnata
I even posted a Valentine for you, you didn't even know it was from me or for you.
So disappointed in your Cancer Venus.
Actually, hon, you were one of my top-three guesses!
But a secret Valentine is suppose to stay secret so la-la-la-la-la, I can't hear you!!
My ex husband and I split during that time...I felt it...
I wouldn't be so foolish as to forgo dating a man I was interested in because our suns signs didn't match, never mind our Venus signs. See, this isn't the way you use astrology-to suss out another and plan your life accordingly. That kind of thinking is a recipe for disaster. Besides which, how many of us know the sun let alone venus sign of someone we're only dating?
This way lies madness.
This way lies madness.
LOL it was funny, but not accurate at all. I think its an exaggerated version of what people presume about us.
At least with me, I'm great at revenge but I alwasy turn the other cheek, until someone crosses that line. Its a far enough line, a person has to screw up SEVERLY in order for me to get pissed. But once I'm pissed, I seek to get even and make it hurt for a lifetime.
But 99% of the time I tolerate everyone.
At least with me, I'm great at revenge but I alwasy turn the other cheek, until someone crosses that line. Its a far enough line, a person has to screw up SEVERLY in order for me to get pissed. But once I'm pissed, I seek to get even and make it hurt for a lifetime.
But 99% of the time I tolerate everyone.
Recently Ed Reed, who is a famous football player had $ 50,000 stolen right out of his car, someone smashed the front window and took it right out of the passengers seat.
http://www.nfl.com/news/story/0ap2000000325622/article/ed-reed-has-50000-cash-stolen-from-car-in-houston
My question is, if you saw a guy had left that much money on the front seat of his car, would you smash the window and take it? What if you found a guys wallet that had 50 grand in it, would you return the wallet or would you keep it?
http://www.nfl.com/news/story/0ap2000000325622/article/ed-reed-has-50000-cash-stolen-from-car-in-houston
My question is, if you saw a guy had left that much money on the front seat of his car, would you smash the window and take it? What if you found a guys wallet that had 50 grand in it, would you return the wallet or would you keep it?
Posted by starlover
No, an English one
I'm guessing...and it's only a guess....that you are caught into wanting what you know isn't going to make you happy because you can't have it or think you can't have it. I can relate to these feelings you are having of being my own worst enemy in the love dept, and in my case I was a young woman who wanted the one I couldn't have because I didn't feel lovable and so choosing Mister Unavailable to Me was a way to avoid real intimacy. I needed to get Mister Unavailable to Me to fall madly in love with me as a way to prove that I was lovable. Of course, if he actually managed to do that, that would prove he's a loser....like me so there's no winning that game. I know. Really messed up but I played out a sad self-defeating script in my early days. Maybe you're not actually sabotaging your relationships but merely choosing the wrong ones. And if a man causes you to feel afraid and feeling not good enough, that's a red flag. Choose the man who makes you feel good about yourself. But Lisbeth above is also very right: you gotta work on feeling better in yourself b4 you can share love with another. You'll get there but the first step is the one you're now taking: realizing the pattern. Good luck!
Posted by MissFisk
And yell "Spray air freshener, mthrfker!!"
I'm cracking up!
+1I love stilettos!!!!
Posted by LovesickCancer
Single people can give advice too you know, sometimes making a decision not to be in a relationship shows intelligence and better than being in a bad one.
I don't take advice from married people just because they're married, they were lucky in that they met their one before I did that's all.
I know I'm doing right because I'm not doing wrong.
It's best to only give advice when asked, that way you know the person actually wants and values your advice.
Yes. This ^^