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Posted by duchessedenemours
I mean... maybe if you include the BJ foreplay it could be 30mins. But how can anyone survive 30 mins of actual BJ?!
Posted by OmagaIII
Yes, another one here. I am exactly the same friend. We put some much in and feel like we get less than nothing out for our honest heartfelt effort.
It is not easy, I know, but it is part of who we are. I also hate this part. I have tried to embrace these loses (if you will) but it always hurts. Unrequited love is the worst. But you know what, the world won't find people more dedicated and rock solid, pardon the pun, then us. We are ourselves and we are true, we love with everything and we give everything despite being hurt time and time again. We take time to heal and then we don it again. Silly, aren't we?
But I don't think there is any better distribution of love than what we give to others. Don't hate your self, or this part of you, embrace it. It hurts and it sucks so damn bad, but if we don't go out and show people what caring, devotion, loyalty and love without limits really is, who will?
In the end, we do get hurt and we do heal... eventually... I know (Stuck in a bout atm) but at the end of the day, who loses out?
We feel we do, but it is actually those who didn't appreciate what they had. And despite how we feel, somewhat insecure blaming ourselves sometimes for the lose and becoming insane, we aren't the problem, nor the solution. We are just a means to an end. People see you, learn to know you, love and then mistreat you. When the wheel turns, it will be us coming out stronger because of selflessness. Being selfish only serves ones demise...
You are not alone in this, I am the same. But instead of feeling busted and beaten again by the evilness of life, smile and take it in stride one day at a time. It sucks, but we are human and few if any are better at being this solid, this true, this caring, this loving, this dedicated, this loyal and this human than you.
Posted by duchessedenemours
IF YOU CARE, JUST BLINDFOLD HIM.
Posted by tsar322Posted by tsar322Posted by Sweets681
I am a Taurus and I don't know if any other Taurus has this problem. When I love someone I love hard and it's so difficult for me to move on and forget this person. I always have to go through this time if grieving like someone died. I can meet other people and go on dates but it means nothing. I just hate this about myself. Some people can move on with no problem and I just don't understand. Can someone help me understand why it's so hard.
Easy... Get yourself a damn hobby maybe take up song writing? Write songs about this person you miss and WHY you miss em.
Take up painting. Draw this person as you remember it and when you see something wrong about this person in the painting, emphasize on that in your music and maybe you will forget em for once and for all.
Hmph. Sick of ya lovesick puppies everywhere. You kno what? Im very comfortable with my mind. Thoughts clean and unclean, loving and the opposite of that but I'm no lovesick puppy like the rest of my generation cryin over the next person who dont give a damn about me? That is SICKEST of all things. Look to the present, not the past so you can make the future brighter!!!click to expand
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