Should I get the hint or forgive him?
He's a Gemini, but he can be very emotional and don't really know to properly act upon his own emotions. Sometimes he will hurt people and he won't even understand why. Everyone in his life things he's cold, but I just know it's who he is and I adapt. (I'm ascendent Gemini myself and I love it. My adaptability is pretty awesome!)
I have known him for a long time. We talk every day, he calls me his best friend and I mine.
However lately he's been hurting me a bunch by neglecting aspects of our friendship.
He stood me up a few times because his girlfriend, a friend of mine, is needy. If she knew we had plans, she would whine and force him to go see her instead. He apologized and all but did it again many times.
I also asked him to come hangout with me a couple of times. He had an excuse each time. Too tired, wanna watch a movie at home instead. Then, the same night I would get on Facebook and see that he lied to me to go spend time with his girlfriend or another friend.
I confronted him about it, and he apologized. Told me that he doesn't know what to do to make everyone happy.
Sick of the lies, being stood up and him not owning to his excuses, I told him I'd give him his space.
He's been trying to talk to him for a few days but I'm playing the busy card. He's upset but talking to him doesn't work and I don't know what else to do.
Should I get the hint or give him more chances?
I have known him for a long time. We talk every day, he calls me his best friend and I mine.
However lately he's been hurting me a bunch by neglecting aspects of our friendship.
He stood me up a few times because his girlfriend, a friend of mine, is needy. If she knew we had plans, she would whine and force him to go see her instead. He apologized and all but did it again many times.
I also asked him to come hangout with me a couple of times. He had an excuse each time. Too tired, wanna watch a movie at home instead. Then, the same night I would get on Facebook and see that he lied to me to go spend time with his girlfriend or another friend.
I confronted him about it, and he apologized. Told me that he doesn't know what to do to make everyone happy.
Sick of the lies, being stood up and him not owning to his excuses, I told him I'd give him his space.
He's been trying to talk to him for a few days but I'm playing the busy card. He's upset but talking to him doesn't work and I don't know what else to do.
Should I get the hint or give him more chances?