Obsession
Are any other Aries extremely obsessive, or is this caused by some other aspect in my chart?
For example, if someone is not my friend anymore, I become obsessed with watching their every move on Facebook, googling them, etc. It's not healthy and I want to change it.
For example, if someone is not my friend anymore, I become obsessed with watching their every move on Facebook, googling them, etc. It's not healthy and I want to change it.
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Posted by LadyOfRebirth
I've never gotten ignored for over a day as far as I can remember.. But yeah I can't imagine how you guys accept being ignored for even a week let alone months.
Aries Venus doesn't roll like that, either you're IN or you're OUT.
thank you.
it's this new guard - they are a lot more accommodating than they should be.
if i am dating you, i am hearing from you daily. period.
never had a problem with that and dumped someone for not following that rule.
Me: Hi, I just want to let you know that I don??t know who they??re from.
Him: They are nice??_ you don??t like them?
Me: yes they are but I don??t want you to have the wrong idea??_I don??t know who sent them ??_could be just a prank??_
Him: ??_I hope not??_it took me an hour to choose them and put them together??_
Me: !!?? they??re from you??
Him: ??_I??m not good at this??_but I just thought you should have flowers today??_hope I didn??t upset you??_sorry If I did.
Me: Awwww of course not! You scared me to death though??_ I didn??t think it was you and I didn??t want you to have the wrong idea. They are gorgeous! Thank you!!
Me: Now I can safely show them off!
Him: I have a lot of work today??_ but do you think I can invite you out for Dinner?
Me: Yay!! I??ll be free at 5
Him: Yea me too but I have to do some extra work from home hope you don??t mind?
Me: I can accompany you if you want??_ that way you won??t have to drive all around to pick me up after?
Him: Hmmm ok??_but my place is a mess??_.
So we went back to his place after work. It was the first time ever that I get to see his place! It was so clean and it has a very cozy feel to it. His clothes were all over his bed as he didn??t have time to fold them yet. And now I know which instrument he plays??_ I mean there??s a huge piano in the living room so that wasn??t hard. He apologized and said that he??ll try to hurry and that I should feel free to visit around and make myself at home. Then he open his laptop and started working in the living room. So I jumped on the sofa where he was and looked at him with puppy eyes??_
Me: Think I can lie down on your lap?
Him (all surprised):??_
Me: but you said to make myself comfortable??_
Him (laughing): You??re too much??_sure??_
Him: They are nice??_ you don??t like them?
Me: yes they are but I don??t want you to have the wrong idea??_I don??t know who sent them ??_could be just a prank??_
Him: ??_I hope not??_it took me an hour to choose them and put them together??_
Me: !!?? they??re from you??
Him: ??_I??m not good at this??_but I just thought you should have flowers today??_hope I didn??t upset you??_sorry If I did.
Me: Awwww of course not! You scared me to death though??_ I didn??t think it was you and I didn??t want you to have the wrong idea. They are gorgeous! Thank you!!
Me: Now I can safely show them off!
Him: I have a lot of work today??_ but do you think I can invite you out for Dinner?
Me: Yay!! I??ll be free at 5
Him: Yea me too but I have to do some extra work from home hope you don??t mind?
Me: I can accompany you if you want??_ that way you won??t have to drive all around to pick me up after?
Him: Hmmm ok??_but my place is a mess??_.
So we went back to his place after work. It was the first time ever that I get to see his place! It was so clean and it has a very cozy feel to it. His clothes were all over his bed as he didn??t have time to fold them yet. And now I know which instrument he plays??_ I mean there??s a huge piano in the living room so that wasn??t hard. He apologized and said that he??ll try to hurry and that I should feel free to visit around and make myself at home. Then he open his laptop and started working in the living room. So I jumped on the sofa where he was and looked at him with puppy eyes??_
Me: Think I can lie down on your lap?
Him (all surprised):??_
Me: but you said to make myself comfortable??_
Him (laughing): You??re too much??_sure??_
So I lied down on his lap and kept staring at him all focused on his work??_he??s so cute, then he said it??s not polite to stare??_ I laughed and quickly turned away... but then he suddenly grabbed my head and caress my left cheek and look at me straight in the eyes with those tender eyes of his??_I just couldn`t move... then he said let??s go and tried to stand up, but I stopped him and told him I??d like to stay like this for a while. I was happy and sad at the same time??_but I didn??t want to spoil the moment so I tried to act cool, but somehow he seems to be able to read my mind and asked me if something??s bothering me? I said ???you do??_.everyday??_?? he pulled me up and hold me in and whisper a soft ???I??m sorry?? into my ears??_I couldn??t control myself and hug him very tightly and my eyes were getting wet??_he rubbed my back and said:
Him: Don??t be like that??_ it??s valentine day??_ let me spoil you today.
Me: don??t you have work to do?
Him: I??ll finish them tomorrow...
He pulled me out and wipe away my tears with a tissue then we head out to nice and cozy restaurant. After our meal, he drove me back home and ask me if I want to go back to his chalet for the weekend? I was so excited and happy about that so with a huge smile I replied a big ???YES!!?? I grabbed some clothes and we drove all the way to his chalet. We spend the rest of the night stargazing and flirting with each other. I was so tired but I didn??t want the night to end so I tried to keep my eyes open but I dozed off a couple of time lol. He carried me all the way to my room and I can vaguely remember he gave me a kiss on the forehead before leaving the room.
Him: Don??t be like that??_ it??s valentine day??_ let me spoil you today.
Me: don??t you have work to do?
Him: I??ll finish them tomorrow...
He pulled me out and wipe away my tears with a tissue then we head out to nice and cozy restaurant. After our meal, he drove me back home and ask me if I want to go back to his chalet for the weekend? I was so excited and happy about that so with a huge smile I replied a big ???YES!!?? I grabbed some clothes and we drove all the way to his chalet. We spend the rest of the night stargazing and flirting with each other. I was so tired but I didn??t want the night to end so I tried to keep my eyes open but I dozed off a couple of time lol. He carried me all the way to my room and I can vaguely remember he gave me a kiss on the forehead before leaving the room.
Coz that's what grandmothers do.
Always fluffing, arranging. Putting new roll on. Baking cookies..
Always fluffing, arranging. Putting new roll on. Baking cookies..
I woke up the next morning and went into his room??_ he was still sleeping, then I noticed his laptop was open he must have work all night??_I went ahead and gave him a kiss on the forehead and that really made my day lol. The rest of the weekend was nothing short of awesome, we took walks in the mountains and forest, we cooked meals together, watch movies together and Saturday night I asked him to stayed with me at least until I fall asleep??_.he gently comply and I grabbed his hand and pulled it in closer as we spend the night talking about all sort of things. Really love holding on to his arm and hands??_ they are so warm and comforting. He was very tired as he basically pulled an all nighter Friday to finish his work??_ but I insisted that he promised to stay till I fall asleep??_it was actually fun to torture him for a change lol. I moved aside and told him to lie down next to me??_ and he was so tired that he didn??t hesitate at all lol. As I moved in closer to him??_ he let you a shy ???please be gentle?? then we both burst out in laugh. We shared the bad that night??_ of course nothing happened but it was still the best night I??ve had since forever!!!
Sunday he drove me home and I gave him a hug and a kiss before leaving the car??_since then all I do is daydreaming about our last weekend??_ I really miss him even though he??s right next to me??_.sigh??_
Sunday he drove me home and I gave him a hug and a kiss before leaving the car??_since then all I do is daydreaming about our last weekend??_ I really miss him even though he??s right next to me??_.sigh??_
Happy belated birthday!
Posted by Aesma
You're a bit more forgiving than I am. I don't like people flirting with other people if they're in a relationship. That's one thing I only do to my partner.
Some say it's harmless but it depends on who you're flirty with. Some people can take that seriously. Even mere politeness or being nice gets misconstrued by some guys and they automatically assume you like them.
I feel very offended when a guy still let's me know that they're interested with me when they know I'm in a relationship. I feel like they're disrespecting me and my partner.
Well, that situation with your friend, true, that can happen and it's hard to let go of someone like that because of the friendship.
You make some very good points. And yes, just being gracious and friendly can be misleading to some individuals. I'd have to say it depends on situations and context.
Flirting is a communication form. It's not necessarily a declaration of romantic interest.
Happy birthday!
CC just go and take him to the play, and have guide lines and stick to them. Mercury retrograde is in full effect I see.
That book is on my shelf, but I need to get it down and read it again. Very funny!