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Nov 10, 2010Comments: 285 · Posts: 30828 · Topics: 650
So lately ive had to block quite a few people on this site (just recently Aquavita) who i feel have taken on too much of the bits and pieces of my life that i post here and made it their life mission to put me on the path that they feel is safe for me, but really its the path that makes them feel more comfortable.
Im not good with words, but I feel like much of what i do makes some people uncomfortable and they lash out. They try to fill the holes in my story and come to conclusions that are so far left field that it becomes maddening. its controlling.
I cant tell you how apprehensive i get when I see a new private message. Is it yet another "save DMV" email or is it a cool email. its not even just women, its men 2!!! I dont even go to my inbox regularly anymore.
Then there are other people who are actually arent here to put me in my place. I thank you for that.
I just would like it to stop. I do not need you to save me. Im not lost.
Just quit, its falling on deaf ears.
How would you feel if your were constantly hounded by save emails and messages?