I need you help taurus!!!!!!!

Its probably the bad relationships that have taken a toll on his confidence. I went through the same and had some extremely distorted views of myself after major breakups. Have you done your chart on any of the popular astro sites like Caf? Astrology?:
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal

Those are a good place to start because they'll give you good brief summaries of your placements without overwhelming you with info. You should see if you can get his birth info.; it would be helpful to compare your moon and venus placements. There are also various free synastry charts where you can see how your placements aspect his.