Getting over someone
Posted by peaceloveandhappiness
Well guess what -- by you not wanting to contact him via email, he's probably thinking you don't care...even though you have your reasons. Reach out any way you can, show him he does mean something to you.
You're trying to wait for that perfect moment but you are wasting precious time. If you email him Im pretty sure he will read your letter (out of curiosity) but he may not respond...at least he will know the truth and you can say you tried.
I sent him an e-mail, telling him how sad I am now that he's not next to me anymore. I told him how much I miss his voice, touch and how gentle and affectionate he was. I know it's been only 2 days, but this is the first time it take him more than hours to reply...This week was a living hell...I sleep with my cell phone next to me hoping for a beep sound in the middle of the night, waking up and seeing a text message from him. I tried to act normal at work but everyone noticed that I wasn't well...they even offered me to take a few days off which I declined since doing nothing at home will just make it worse. I went over our text messages exchanges coutnless time...sometime I smiled... and sometime I just cried...but this time he's not there to support or comfort me this time I'm really all alone...waiting and waiting and waiting... what else can I do?
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very cool! 
thank QBone
thank QBone
Posted by firebunny
I AM ALSO HOMOPHOBIC.
I'm hoping the CAPS = sarcasm or satire...
Posted by Fox
Have you got any other placements in the 1st house TMV?
Technically the only thing I have in my first house is my Aries N. Node. But since Pisces gets intercepted there and Neptune pings my ascendant from the 11th I'm looking at it like it's in the first via a default shift. With Pisces intercepted and Neptune in Rx I'm having some trouble nailing down specifics on how it functions but a lot of these descriptions are ringing true for me.
Posted by Damnata
Yeah.
I have Saturn, Uranus and Neptune in the first.
Talk about mindfuck.click to expand
I wouldn't mind hearing more about that if you care to tell.
Not sure if you're still checking this topic but I stumbled upon this post doing a Google search because I'm a Cancer guy who's into a Sag girl right now. She's not the first, either. I don't know what it is about you ladies, but I'm drawn to you like a moth to the flame. Or a crab to the pot, perhaps. And this time around (and because I'm a little older and wiser) I recognize a lot more about our dynamic than with the others who came before.
Having said that, it should be noted sun signs are a terrible way to determine compatibility. You really need to check each other's birth charts. There is much more to a person than just their sun sign and it's everybody's unique mix of planets at the time and place of their birth that really makes up who they are as individuals. For instance, I'm a cancer sun, but a leo rising. My sun is my inner world, my private life, the side my closest friends and family get to see. My ascendant is the face I show to the world. It's how I am in public and at parties, etc. For me that means a constant tug-of-war between my cancerian need for privacy and my leo need to be the center of attention. I am also a leo venus and venus is the planet that really tells you about how the person handles themselves in romance and love. It's much better if you know each other's venus signs and then compare those for compatibility.
Ok, phew. Listen. I've confused the hell out of plenty of girls in my life. And I know how intense a Sag girl can be for an emotional cancer. You guys are fun-loving and flirty and don't like to be domesticated, generally speaking. You're also not terribly emotional. Cancerians live in their private world. They live there with their emotions. We are intense lovers sometimes, especially if we love and completely trust the person. And that's another thing, we are not very trusting people. It takes a long time, sometimes years, to really come to fully trust someone in our lives.
Now, you're a sag girl. This means you love the attention with which a cancer man is able to shower you. This also means when he withholds it for a period of time you spend a lot of time wondering what's going on. But you know what? Secretly, you love that part, don't you? Hmmmm? Yes, I think you do. You love the push and pull in an affair. You love the mystery of "What's he thinking now?" You love to be kept guessing every now and then. And, if he's smart and he's done his homework, then he knows this is what he has to do to keep a Sag
Having said that, it should be noted sun signs are a terrible way to determine compatibility. You really need to check each other's birth charts. There is much more to a person than just their sun sign and it's everybody's unique mix of planets at the time and place of their birth that really makes up who they are as individuals. For instance, I'm a cancer sun, but a leo rising. My sun is my inner world, my private life, the side my closest friends and family get to see. My ascendant is the face I show to the world. It's how I am in public and at parties, etc. For me that means a constant tug-of-war between my cancerian need for privacy and my leo need to be the center of attention. I am also a leo venus and venus is the planet that really tells you about how the person handles themselves in romance and love. It's much better if you know each other's venus signs and then compare those for compatibility.
Ok, phew. Listen. I've confused the hell out of plenty of girls in my life. And I know how intense a Sag girl can be for an emotional cancer. You guys are fun-loving and flirty and don't like to be domesticated, generally speaking. You're also not terribly emotional. Cancerians live in their private world. They live there with their emotions. We are intense lovers sometimes, especially if we love and completely trust the person. And that's another thing, we are not very trusting people. It takes a long time, sometimes years, to really come to fully trust someone in our lives.
Now, you're a sag girl. This means you love the attention with which a cancer man is able to shower you. This also means when he withholds it for a period of time you spend a lot of time wondering what's going on. But you know what? Secretly, you love that part, don't you? Hmmmm? Yes, I think you do. You love the push and pull in an affair. You love the mystery of "What's he thinking now?" You love to be kept guessing every now and then. And, if he's smart and he's done his homework, then he knows this is what he has to do to keep a Sag
Sure, just let me gather my thoughts. fucking merc retro screwed me up badly.
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I know hon 
but Virgo Men are Sir Whine-a-lot and Captain Save-A-Hoe.
i feel like shaking you folks
virgo women on the other hand are delusional.
but Virgo Men are Sir Whine-a-lot and Captain Save-A-Hoe.
i feel like shaking you folks
virgo women on the other hand are delusional.
STOP HITTING ON MY MAN.
I am extremely territorial.
Think AK-47 territorial.
I am extremely territorial.
Think AK-47 territorial.