The Twin-Flame Connection

Posted by SpiceNSugar

Posted by virgom

Posted by SpiceNSugar
Couple of days ago, I got into a huge fight with the person who I believe is my TF. Haven't spoken to him since. Without going into details, I was pondering the argument today and realized something:
I was blaming him for something that he does. Yet, he does this out of deep-rooted insecurity.
Why was I blaming him for this? Because of my own deep-rooted insecurity.
Once again the TF mirror-image comes back to slap me in the face. With anyone else, I would've walked away LONG ago. However, with this person, I just can't get myself to do that try as I might. Hence, I think it really is impossible to cut-off a TF. You can cut contact yes, but you can't cut-off the lessons that they will teach you about yourself.
So many people mistake TF's with SoulMates, but it's really a whole different ballgame. With a SoulMate there's a strong bond of mutual understanding and relative tranquility. For the most part, you're both "on the same wavelength".
With a TF, the bond is even stronger but the push/pull, arguing/forgiving, and learning about the other and the self is literally exhausting. You want to walk away but you can't. Because the reality is that you can't walk away from your own self no matter how hard you try and no matter how much you want to do so.

Im in the same boat with my TF..hard to deal with at times...great for learning but really does suck to have such an intense connection with someone only to be constantly battling

I still haven't spoken to mine after our argument. I just can't bring myself to do so. I'm currently in hiding licking my wounds. I just don't feel strong enough right now to do anything else.

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