Signed Up: Mar 24, 2006 Comments: 163 · Posts: 6615 · Topics: 326
IKR? I normally will let things go over my head but not anymore, I'm scarily vocal and don't care if I offend someone when I think they are clearly not thinking or being presumptuous! I did decide that I wasn't going to sit back and be a doormat anymore at the beginning of the year..
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Questions for Seraph (until Bluemoon is reinstated): Were you friends with Elle when Bluemoon was banned? Did you dislike Bluemoon for any reason?
SteveW (or whoever you are): First, why on earth would this individual be "reinstated", given the circumstances (which you happen to know nothing at all about in the first place)? Not a good idea for the site, and the site admin would probably want to avoid the resulting headaches. But in answer to your first question: yes. In answer to your second question, my "dislike" is irrelevant. The facts of the matter dictated the course of events. The individual in question made advances toward a user on this site that were unwelcome. They were friends at one point. The friendship ended. The individual then persisted in their unwelcome advances toward the user. The user asked them repeatedly to stop, and otherwise made her position clear to the individual. The individual persisted, and then pursued the user *offline* in a manner which caused the user concern for her safety. The matter was forwarded to the authorities (police.) The user was able to produce for them evidence in support of her claim. This satisfied the authorities, and they then proceeded to contact the individual and advise them to refrain from any further contact. This worked for a little while, but soon the individual re-appeared on this site and continued the pursuit. It was at this time that the user forwarded the matter to the site admin, at which time the site admin decided to take action. It couldn't be any simpler. And the matter has been done with for over a year now. I have no idea why you're so concerned about it (persistently) or what your agenda is (you don't even know this person, do you?), but it makes no difference because the matter is closed. At any, rate I won't be commenting on it further because there's no reason to do so. Hope that answers your questions.