I guess its that I dont really let myself get that close to anyone. I dont know why it scares me so much, but it does. Its not even intentional really, i just cant get close and open up. Ive opened up to strangers on message boards more than the people around me. I know that i love the person i was speaking to, more than i have loved anyone else, but i also know that i dont love them as much as i should or am capable of.
hahaha tha man who played with my heart... id tie him up n a chair n arouse him so much he wants to cum but cant ever... this would be for infinfity so hed always be in a forever struggle n needing to release just like wat he did to me... though in emotional sense didnt know whether i was coming or going with him hahaha i rekon itd be pure hell... hahaha evil i know but ther
ez no karma n this world right hahaha sweet sweet revenge...
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im a cancer and im dating a cancer man. we have been friends for quite some time and have been hooking up and mutually agreed to be dating. He has a hard time expressing his feelings openly to me which i understand having the same problem myself. but he says that he doesnt want anyone else and that he wants a future with me, yet he is extremely hesitant to be boyfriend/girlfriend. he says we are "dating." its been months and i just dont know what he means anymore and if im crazy to stick around...and being a cancer i dont want to press the issue because i want to be that "cool" girl that doesnt cause drama. what is he thinking... any advice?/
no bubble bath!!! i would go for something music related...or some kind of experience that she can share with you and keep the memories...like a concert, play, outdoor adventure..something like that. we like it when people want to spend time.
the cell phone isnt bad though.
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TC, that's funny! I'm at the beginning stages of a relationship and it's hard. He's an Aqua...very nice guy and I'm not really paying attention to all the non-compatibility between Taurus/Aqua because I want to develop this relationship on my own (although this Aqua told me last week that he's just looking for friends yet his actions and words imply something more serious).
You're right about being driven by paranoia even when radar isn't getting anything...
Cancer ...we aim to please.
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Come on? this year ..?? Its not finished yet?lol
Butt? Syriana was great.. also The Da Vinci Code? Brian Flemming - The God Who Wasn't There?
More to say..?? YES? few movies have moved me the best of all? in history..
1. Chaplin.
2. The fisher king..
3. The fabulous bake boy.
4. Baraka.
5- Forest Gump
6- L?on
7- Dances with Wolves.
8 - The Last Temptation of Christ
9- American pshyco
Damn.. 300 more?
Sigh..
Message posted by: Aprilbaby on 6/9/2006 12:48:36 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.254
We are on the Libra board, and I saw a lot of Librans making rationalizations for their behavior instead of taking responsibility for their actions.
Mmmm this is a difficult comment to make really unless you are fully sure you can justify that it is not something that we all do, including you, as I would say it is potentially an element of human behaviour.
I also wouldn't necessarily call withholding information or not sharing concerns, thinking of the other person...I just call it not being honest and copping out.
I would be inclined to say, that it would depend on what the information that you withold concern, in the case of the original post, My personal view is that it would not have been necessary, at that stage, to advise the partner about her feelings.
I would also be inclined to comment on the aspect on whether the girls actions could be equated to 'mental cheating' by saying that I would be very surprised and difficult to convince, whether anyone, including yourself, can say with the greatest conviction, that they have not at sometime, found others outwith their relationship desirable, I would say it is part of al our natures. Would it indeed be unreasonable to expect that it didn't happen.I think so. I know for a fact that my husband flirts with and finds other women attractive, I don't get hung up about it, if I did it would likely drive me mad, I accept that it happens, it does not mean that he does not love or find me attractive.......
Regards
Message posted by: Aprilbaby on 6/9/2006 11:31:12 PM
i mean if im pissed off at something i would let my BF know and we talk about it... thatz the only way u can make it work...and if hes the kind who doesnt want to 'talk' thingz over... FINE..... leave him...
I don't really feel that the original post was relating to non communication in general, merely about a specific situation and the emotions that went with it. It is certainly pleasing when a realionship works on all levels and I agree that communication is a vital part of it's success. But again I feel that relationships are not cut and dried and situations do arise, as i am sure you will find out as your relationship progresses. We all deal withthings differently, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. Personally I am a Libra woman who has been married for 14 yrs so it would be nice if people acknowledged that Librians often do have long successful relationships
Finally someone who said something that made sense
I think we all eac and everyone of us feel that what we say makes sense or else we wouldn't be on this site I would imagine......