Aries is confused by a Taurus man
I've been dating with a Taurus man for a month only. The first day I met him, he showed that he's interested in me and wanted to know me further. The connection was so smooth, we grabbed a drink, and we kissed. The night is over, he texted me, I really enjoyed spending time with you, I wish to see you soon. He said, I think I really like you. We met the other day, and we see each other really often. One day he said, I'm really sure about how I feel, and I'm going for it. I'm not questioning you, I'm telling you, You're mine. We texted everyday, he updated me everything. I wanted to ask him, what are we now? Are we together, or we're still in a dating process? But I have no guts to ask as I know he doesn't like it when a girl take it too seriously. Everytime we met, he'd always said, I really like you, You're mine. There's a night, he was complaining about his female friend acted awkward toward him, like she has a feeling for him, but she's in his friendzone. So I took this chance to asked him, Am i in your friendzone? He was shocked and said, are you stupid? Do you think this is friendzone? We kissed, and finally, I said I really like you. The other day, I texted him saying, I really like you and I mean it. After that day, I never heard him saying I like you, you're mine again. But we still enjoy each other's company. He often said sweet phrases, but when I started to show my feelings, I feel like he's drifting away. I received lesser updates from him, and now he's just completely disappeared. Normally, he would always spend his Sunday with me and every lunch break. Last week, he didn't ask me out at all, I was expecting that he would see me on Sunday. When I asked to see him, he said he doesn't feel sociable, he wanna spend time alone. I would just smile and said enjoy your day. He acted more and more awkward. He didn't text me at all, and when I texted good morning, have a nice day, he didn't reply. I'm so fucked up. I leave him a message, "I've heard from you so little these days, I hope everything is going well with you." I expected a reply, but he didn't make a move until now. I can't figure out what's wrong. He seems really quick to showed me his feelings, but when I started to show him back, he's disappeared. Why? Can somebody tell me please, what's going on here? What should I do next? My birthday is coming up next week, he said that he will cook for me on that day, but he's disappearing right now. Please, somebody please tell me what should I do.
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Posted by certified
no offense, but your debate was weak. Chance mopped with the floor with you like a Mexican on redbull...all while taking down Monty at the same time.
If personal insults = winning, then you may want to re-examine your political stance.
If you still think you have a legitimate point, please show your work.
Thanks
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Posted by MontgomeryPosted by LibraSid
P, you have such a way with people. I missed reading stuff like this while I wasn't here. I'm continually shocked and humored by replies.
In a Jerry Springer, chair-throwin' kind of way, yeah.
Though I think her answers are based solely on bitterness and thin air.
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It is bitterness becuase I do not know why he stopped. When I asked, he didn't say anything. So I went about my day. Then he gets upset whenever I talked to other people but what's wrong with talking to other people? I'm not ignoring him I'm just talking to other people. When I come up to him and talk to him he doesn't say anything.
Unless he's misinterpretting my actions all I wan't to do is have a natural functioning situation like there used to be. It's not functioning because he's not saying what's wrong and if there's nothing wrong on his end then why is it so awkward.
Yeah, MoonArtist, I keep you in my prayers on Sundays because I know you are in need of support right now.
Keep your head up, and always look at what you have going for you. Never look at what you don't have.
Keep your head up, and always look at what you have going for you. Never look at what you don't have.
Posted by LibraSid
He's fine, they are close enough in age. If he was 25, it'd be way different going after a 16 y/o than it is at 18.
I totally agree. 18 & 25 is a very different ball park.
Posted by tiziani
Divide by 2 and add 7. So yes it's just about acceptable. Right on the limit.
Agreed. Exactly.
I just smile & keep it moving because what's the point of a correction? We both know that we aren't an item so whatever. Some people still don't get that people of the opposite sex can be just friends without any romantic interest whatsoever so if you correct every person that makes that mistake, then you'll be doing a whole lot of talking...to A LOT of people. Just smile & let them reach whatever conclusion their imagination allows them.
Posted by ScorpioFish
Yeah, MoonArtist, I keep you in my prayers on Sundays because I know you are in need of support right now.
Keep your head up, and always look at what you have going for you. Never look at what you don't have.
Thanks!
Haves and don't haves are fixable and changeable. All one has to do is work hard for it and be smart about what you do have. When it comes down to it, "things" are not so very important in life and the people you love are everything.
Posted by Chance15
Posted by Montgomery
The only thing I addressed is above, in bold.
To expand: Russians living in Crimea do not give Russia a "legitimate claim" to Crimea, as you've asked us to believe.
The rest of your comment was irrelevant.
This:
Posted by Chance15
speculation if your definition is that we haven't actually invaded Ukraine (love the logic, Monty )
making statements that nobody could possible disagree with in the absence of a point seems to be your specialty hehe.
The point? It's the simple truth-- it stands on its own merit.
The remainder of your comment is even more irrelevant speculation, and I suspect, deflection.
The thread is not on what YOU think the US might do in a similar situation, but what is actually occurring in Crimea.
Also, can you get you through a post without personal insults?
Just curious-- it takes a toll on your credibility.
Except you still haven't provided any reasoning whatsoever. You just repeated the same baseless assertion. I've already stated why Russia has a legitimate claim. The rest of the comment is relevant because it illustrates hypocrisy which makes any U.S. claims dubious at best.
'simple truth' lol..is saying nothing? grandstanding once again? lol i never said the thread was what the US might do..twisting it once again. *shakes head* nice try though.
You're lying.
I quoted you, directly, and you erased it from your response.
Here it is again:
Posted by Chance15
yeah, it's the same thing..good example lol. the hypocrisy lays in the U.S., if the shoe were on the other foot, would've probably already invaded Ukraine unilaterally..under falses pretexts like it did in Iraq and multiple other countries. At least Russia has a legitimate, if not unpopular claim outside Russia, to Crimea.click to expand
Like I told certified-- you may want to reassess your politics, since you're forced to rely on dishonesty.
@Sancho
The reason Chance "can't even quote" is because he removes his own words that were quoted by previous posters.
It's the only hope he has of making his claims look legit
If there is a gracious or comfortable way to make the correction and joke it off, I will. But if doing so brings more attention to the subject, or seem insulting I'd rather smile wisely and change the topic.
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