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Feb 11, 2010Comments: 252 · Posts: 38715 · Topics: 473
1) What is "eperating"?
2) The whole pregnancy stuff would freak me out.
You're both cheating scumbags so..you'll probably be happy together.
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Feb 11, 2010Comments: 252 · Posts: 38715 · Topics: 473
See the thing is..people get extremely infatuated with us off the bat and instead of pacing themselves and getting a grasp on reality they cry wolf later like you do with "she's emotionally draining me".
From what you say, you ended it. If she comes back..considering you both seem really delusional..she'll play games most likely. So wake up from that dreams and let it go.
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Jan 23, 2014Comments: 124 · Posts: 843 · Topics: 79
Omg me too, I feel relieved now haha. So it's true aqua minds think alike. I am now re-enacting hanging out with my leeb pal Friday.Is it weird I played the scene over 3 times haha (take 4, action!)
So here it is...
She moved back to Greece because her return ticket was good for only 3 months. She wanted it that way from the beginning just in case things didn't work out here. (I would have done the same plus immigration doesn't clue into what's going on).
Was she home sick? I believe she was. She also wanted to see more people and tie up some loose ends before moving back. (fair enough). She never did tell me what those loose ends were and in all reality, I didn't care. She also wanted to have a farewell party and to say goodbye to her friends/family before she came back.
I found out last week that she told my parents that she was going to come back April 2nd, but didn't want me to know because she wanted it as a surprise. She didn't come. I even questioned her about that and she ignored the question.
Something happened in the last few weeks that has changed her mind and she's done a complete 180. She also wrote me an email last week stating that even though we were together for 3 months that we didn't know each other. She did enjoy her time with me and that while we were together she was very happy. Also me moving to Greece would be a huge step because I would need to go to the army, find a job, worry about healthcare, find a place for us to stay, etc...(All valid points)
She also mentioned that she's not sure if she wants a structured life style .
Just after the email, she also mentioned that while out at the bar listening to a group play, all she could think of was me. The next day she mentioned that she never had a guy fight for her like I was and that she really like it but at the same time was scared. I asked her why, again...no response.
My bday was what really made me reconsider my feelings for her and what do do. The fact that she forgot my bday and to this day still hasn't called pisses me off. She did apologize but still no excuse to miss the bay of the person you like. Since Wednesday she's been silent. I got two words out of her today and when I tried calling her, she never picked up the phone.
I'm at the point where I'm ready to give up and let her be. Her actions are screaming volumes. I'm a bag full of emotions right now. My gut feeling is what I listened to and it has never steered me wrong...until now. Deep down I still want her but not at the expense of my heart. I've never played the game and I don't like it. I've always been a straight up kinda guy, especially after my fight with cancer. Life is too short to