MY LIBRA-ARIES-LEO DRAMA LOL.HELP!
I??m so mad this darn internet did not let me finish the story.lol
Anyway you guys are spot on. My question at the end of the day was whether or not you thought the Leo liked me or if he just genuinely enjoys my company from the many times we hung out as a group? I wanted to know what you all thought the Aries may think? And should I care about Aries feelings?
I won??t lie my gut is telling me the Leo MIGHT have interest in me, just because he pays attention to little things like the way I dress, one time I got my toes polished he took notice, if I changed my hair he??d make a comment faster than my Aries. I got a lower back tattoo and he made a comment like he was shocked when he noticed it. He once made a comment like ???I think you??re going to make a really good girlfriend one day to that right guy. Like you gonna be a cool ass girlfriend to the right man.?? I don??t remember what we were talking about that made him say it, I only remember it because that was the day I finally realized he MAY have interest but refusing to say it directly because of his cousin (the Aries) and our history. He??s been texting and inviting me out and because I still somewhat care about the Aries I have been sort of blowing him off in a nice way, like saying I??m busy or people I was supposed to come with bailed on me. He??s really laid back and cool. Like last night he invited me to a hotel party and call twice to see where I was, but I ignored the calls and texted him this morning saying I was caught up with family. He laughed and said it was cool. I feel like he knew I was probably lying but he??s too chill to care or show he cared. I ignored the calls because I didn??t really know how to react or if I should go because of the way my Libra cousin has been acting. I??m afraid I??m gonna get caught in the middle of something or that I will look bad hanging with the Leo and his friends after what the Aries and I have been through.
What are yall thoughts?
Anyway you guys are spot on. My question at the end of the day was whether or not you thought the Leo liked me or if he just genuinely enjoys my company from the many times we hung out as a group? I wanted to know what you all thought the Aries may think? And should I care about Aries feelings?
I won??t lie my gut is telling me the Leo MIGHT have interest in me, just because he pays attention to little things like the way I dress, one time I got my toes polished he took notice, if I changed my hair he??d make a comment faster than my Aries. I got a lower back tattoo and he made a comment like he was shocked when he noticed it. He once made a comment like ???I think you??re going to make a really good girlfriend one day to that right guy. Like you gonna be a cool ass girlfriend to the right man.?? I don??t remember what we were talking about that made him say it, I only remember it because that was the day I finally realized he MAY have interest but refusing to say it directly because of his cousin (the Aries) and our history. He??s been texting and inviting me out and because I still somewhat care about the Aries I have been sort of blowing him off in a nice way, like saying I??m busy or people I was supposed to come with bailed on me. He??s really laid back and cool. Like last night he invited me to a hotel party and call twice to see where I was, but I ignored the calls and texted him this morning saying I was caught up with family. He laughed and said it was cool. I feel like he knew I was probably lying but he??s too chill to care or show he cared. I ignored the calls because I didn??t really know how to react or if I should go because of the way my Libra cousin has been acting. I??m afraid I??m gonna get caught in the middle of something or that I will look bad hanging with the Leo and his friends after what the Aries and I have been through.
What are yall thoughts?
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Okay it probably matters to me I'm just trying to lie to myself.
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See, on top of that, I have the uncanny and annoying ability to hit some chord withing someone.
I meet someone new and instead of going for boring questions, I say smthg totally random.
With my Cancer gf I asked her, before even asking for her name
"What does your dad do for a living?"
"He died..a few months ago"
I felt like crap. I know people don't hold this part against me because it's not like I do it on purpose but I still feel bad.
I meet someone new and instead of going for boring questions, I say smthg totally random.
With my Cancer gf I asked her, before even asking for her name
"What does your dad do for a living?"
"He died..a few months ago"
I felt like crap. I know people don't hold this part against me because it's not like I do it on purpose but I still feel bad.
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Krys it's an friends with benefits ie not a real relationship situation, nothing to really talk about considering the nature of their relationship.
Oh well in that case, she should run for the hills.
I wouldn't even recommend putting up with that with a man you ARE committed to. The fact that he hasn't even committed to you is a double HELL NO! A guy who's already showing signs of being selfish, flaky & inconsiderate is a big ole warning & red flag of what's to come later or what's not to come at all ---> commitment
To be fair though, I have to think realistically on this one. If she truly values his company, his friendship and whatever else she feels he brings to her life, then all the advice we give her in the world won't make her cut this guy off cold turkey. The heart wants what the heart wants.
So in that case, my advice would be to slow down, and back off A LOT! If cutting him off & moving on is just 100% not gonna happen or something you refuse to do, then fine. But the least you can do to protect yourself is to make your relations with him strictly platonic & to downgrade him from "priority" to "option." That way no one gets hurt. No one feels used or led on.
If you keep making someone a priority when they are showing you better than they can tell you that you're just an option, then the question isn't any longer: why would they lead me on? The question is actually: why wouldn't they?!!
He's either not that into you, he never saw you as a potential partner to begin with or he's entertaining many other girls that are the ones getting his attention on those nights when he cancel dates with you.
You're not that important to him sweetheart. All his sweet words & empty promises mean nothing if his actions speak a different tune. His actions are a reflection of how he truly feels about you. He's showing you who he is. As the saying goes, "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the 1st time."
If not, you're setting yourself up for heartbreak & disaster that could've been 100% preventable had you just played your cards right & used logic vs. temporary ever-changing emotions
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