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May 21, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 21685 · Topics: 138
So Alien are u saying monogamy is not really meant for men in particular?
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Mar 08, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1633 · Topics: 53
There is too a huge grey area there.. people are jeslous and possive on varying degrees. Some are extremely and some are just a tad bit. And yes, the degree the person you are interested in, depends on whether you can handle it or not. But there is a vast varience in that trait.
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Mar 30, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 239 · Topics: 35
aloha....
what do you do to attract a guy. specifics if possible. what actions? do you take action different than any other guys? or do you treat all guys the same because that is a huge confusion for most guys. They watch a girl flirt with them and then go off and observe her flirt with others, then he is confused, not turned off, just confused. Do you treat that special guy a certain way, different than the rest? Or what?
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mauicountry
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Feb 03, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 469 · Topics: 63
"So Alien are u saying monogamy is not really meant for men in particular?"
no...i didnt say that, i just dont like the idea of marriage, i could just stay with one women in my entire life without getting married, but most men can't....so marriage is the rule for them, not mine
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Dec 19, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 103 · Topics: 14
I'm listening to you emeraldgem, pathfinder and misty. In a free world I might have done what misty recommended, but we're not in a free world.
I'm also not in love, so I'm not worried about my feelings, but I have been manipulated that's for sure. I also have reasons. I haven't been in many relationships so I don't have much experience and I do want to be in a relationship, but I don't find many men attracting me. He has managed to catch my attention, but it could be a challenge for him more than he cares cause I'm not 'typical'. And I also can be attractive if I put the effort and he can't understand why I'm not using it to get guys. But I'm looking more for a mental and emotional connection, not just physical.
The last update: He was extermely nice and came and said hello, trying to open conversations, asked me to dance. I did, the way I feel comfortable and he kept giving me instructions, telling me to take it easy, that we're dancing, etc..
I will really try to be cool and continue being cool, as if I've changed my mind. I will also not flirt with him online cause I think this has been triggering alot excitment. I have to break the cycle, which I'm aware of.
i find myself posting about my cancer man a lot more that i'd like to be. i just don't understand him at all. but i love him, and i want this to work out.
i'm a leo myself, and with every relationship i've ever had i've been completely insatiable. i want more of their time, more affection, more attention, etc. i realize that i can be unreasonable so i try to hide this yearning i always have and find other ways to satisfy it.
we've been dating for almost seven months. in the beginning he was so attentive, we were always together, he was completely affectionate and did all the right things. every day we would be at work but we'd be sending text messages to each other all day long....an hour was too long to not have contact with one another. we met each other's families, and friends, and i have really become attached to him.
i recently told him that i loved him, and he replied with, i wish i could say it back, but it gets thrown around too much. i need to know that i really mean it. but please dont take that the wrong way because i really like you a lot.
he brings me to family gatherings and i'm included in everything he does with his friends. when i'm out with my girls it's not unusual for him to "show up" at some point in the night. he keeps finding these interesting events for us to go to, and when we do things like that i feel like a total princess.
i found out on the weekend through a mutual friend that every girlfriend he has ever had has cheated on him. she told me that when we started dating, the one thing he made clear was how different i was. she said he's been through some brutal experiences with women in the past and was deeply hurt by them. she said i have to be patient, even though my feelings are there it's going to take him a while longer because he is so afraid.
she also said that she's never known him to introduce anyone to his family, or that he brought around as much as he does with me. but i don't know if that means anything. honestly s
but i don't understand this. there's nothing i wouldn't do for him, and i would never intentionally hurt him. he is everything to me - no other man would ever even come close at this point. every day i do everything i can to show him this, and i am starting to worry that he'll never understand, that maybe he's just not capable of loving at this point.
do i stick it out, or do i let him go to try to find someone who can love me back as much as i love them?
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Mar 08, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1633 · Topics: 53
Scorpio - They radiate sexuality. Their height just accentuates their sensual persona.
Leo's - Their extreme confidence make them attractive even if they don't look it.
These 2 signs always get me and I can usually tell who i'm dealing with when i see and first talk to them.. hard to miss...
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Feb 03, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 469 · Topics: 63
yes, our true opposite should be 5 signs from our own sign
gemini - scorp
aqua - cancer
libra - pisces
leo - cap
sag - taurus
aries - virgo
anyway, jealous is just a sign of insecurity