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Posted by P-AngelPosted by minnieroger
... his dad was at the door and he started saying some things to my bf infront of me, like here you come still with her, this is not a hotel..etc.
Honestly I felt so UGH out of place, embarrassed, hurt and like I was truly not wanted there.
If your boyfriend is going to allow another to disrespect you ... then he will allow himself to do it also, if the time comes that his heart changes.
It is your responsibility to teach someone how to treat you. It is your responsibility to protect your partner. If he were to be treated that way in front of your family - it would be your duty to stand up for him and not allow your family to disrespect him.
The fact that he did not do that, and the fact the he let a year slip by and never approached the topic with his father is a red flag waving = he won't face his father on an issue.
so, what the fuck are you going to do when a REAL issue arises? ... because clearly, your boyfriend isn't going to stand up.click to expand
Posted by P-AngelPosted by minnieroger
my bf's "friend" told my father in law that i slept with him
It's noted here that you didn't put the word "ex" in front of friend ... which is an indicator that this guy is still your bf's friend.
If you'd stay with a guy, to even become an official girlfriend, when he allows people to disrespect you ... then you're probably ghetto, and actually getting off of the drama.click to expand
Posted by minnieroger
Okay so maybe I should have included that he did in fact stand up for me right there and then, he told him i am his gf, and not just some random. He told his dad he had to apologize to me, but like another person said its his dad and his house he has the right to say what he has to say, that is what i told my bf.
Posted by minnieroger
I mean I actually like them, his mom, and brothers, sisters, its just his dad I don't really talk to..But of course I never try or really have anything bad about them to say to him, that would be incredibly rude and my bf would not stand it.
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Posted by minnieroger
anyways, yes ex friend, he is no longer in the picture and he was really more his brothers friend but obv my bf kicked it with him too
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