i give such good advise. my friends come from near and far to hear my wisdom..lol... jk.. but really, i am always the voice of reason, why the boyfriend is a dog and should be left. blah blah, then occasionally, i tell my friends, go for it, be in love and love and dont let anything get in your way. i generally do or say that becasue that is usually waht i do... even with the assholes that should be left!! so, logiacally, i dont heed my own advise, i am not casusious. i get my heart hurt and broke in to a million pieces. but, why is it that i am such a know it all, and i try so hard to help my friends from being shit on, but cant for myself. Well i am getting older and have a lot harder time putting my self out there. wiser, yes, stronger, no..